Guys, help me out!

There's this girl that most of my posts are related to. We're living in the same town, tomorrow she's leaving for her home town for summer break. There she's living with her bf.

4 months ago she talked 3 or 4 times about visiting me in my home town. She said she'd have to stay for at least a couple of days. She seemed to be really into it, but I never offered her to come.
4 weeks ago I asked her when she was planning to come and she said something like "well.. this summer I'm not traveling or anything.. so..". Seemed a bit hesitant though.

Now after saying goodbye since it's not sure if we meet again tomorrow I added "See you in *my town* then!"
But she reacted pretty hesitant again.. "Well.. I don't know. Let's see." Later "Probably..".

If I meet her again tomorrow, is there anything I can do to make her feel comfortable to visit me or anything?

Let it go... assuming you want to bang her, it is mostly likely not going to happen. she has a boyfriend, and sounds like she doesn't want to come see you on top of that she probably won't want to bang you either. you already mentioned it to her twice, you are coming off needy to her and thats not attractive. there is a lesson to be learned her though and thats to open the door when opportunity knocks.

Why did you never invite her 4 months ago? as a future reference, take advantage of an opportunity when it arises, don't wait around a quarter of a year.

Also if she gives a hesitant response to a question, asking it again won't yield a different result. Not if you're not improving her stance. The only thing you manage to accomplish is to look needy.

She made up her mind about visiting you during the past months. You can't change it back in one day.

Anyway, you *may* be able to get her to come over eventually, but you're almost clearly not getting any at this point. It's wasted effort in my opinion.

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It sure doesn't sound like visiting you is on the agenda for this summer, buddy.

Sorry.

Game others. She has a boyfriend anyway, and does not appear to really want to cheat on him with you.

If I said

URGERENT!!! I NEED $500,000 dollars to buy a ferrarri by tomorrow and I don't have any money? Is there anything I can do to get this money in twelve hours? Yea play the lotto.

I'm unsure why guys on the site excuse being good with women from being good at any other activity. You have to PRACTICE your social skills daily so when you are met with a situation like this you know exactly what to do. Right now you're praying for a miracle and all you have is a shot in the dark. You want this to come easy, just because you say so.. Where else in life does this actually work?

Call her up and give it your best shot.. Spill everything and ask her to come.. Play the lotto and keep your fingers crossed.

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