Hey guys here's what's up. Had a day 2 with a nice girl I met a little while ago. I tried twice to set something up, but conflicting schedules it didn't work out.

We were talking yesterday and I asked her what she was up and we made plans to go to this cool new little ice cream place. Thing is she was in her city about an hour away from me which actually worked out pretty good because I was in town anyway, but by the time we got to the ice cream place it had just closed their hrs on their website weren't right not a big deal.

She asked if I was going back that night if she could get a ride save a 4 plus hour subway ride wasn't a problem. We had a good convo on the drive, but the drive was the extent of the date we both had to work the next day and I was almost falling asleep at the wheel. So I dropped her off she's like thank you so much I owe you big time we'll definitely hang out soon!

We haven't talked today, but I put effort in 2 tried attempts and then last night so I don't think its unfair to let her put effort in for the next date and let her call or text me next. She's a nice girl, but I don't think its unreasonable to let her come to me. As always any thoughts/advice is appreciated thanks!

0% escalation?
0% sexual banter? (plenty of time Bro)
0% Come in for drink/coffee?

To tired for pussy?

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Bit of joking sexual banter not a lot more of rapport building convo. Bit of escalation when I dropped her off not a whole lot though. As far as going for the close it may sound like I'm making excuses, but it wasn't in the cards for me I had a lot on my mind I got served with papers that I have to appear in court. I can tell you straight up with the way I was feeling sex would have been half ass at best so I didn't push for it. I'm fully aware I didn't do all I should have or could have and if I get another chance I'm definitely gonna have to make up for it, but if I don't oh well she's not the only girl I have on the go right now.

Go with your gut.

And Heywood is right.

You drive her home, go for the kill.. Why not? Whats there to lose?

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both you guys are totally right, but like I said it just wasn't my night I figured it would be best to not perform then to perform badly. It just wasn't in the cards for me. The rest of the night was good, but maybe the ending was a little disappointing, but I look at it on a points system if you have enough points in the bank from good experiences and good rapport they will likely carry you through some of the sub par experiences and some times they won't. That's just the way I look at it any input on that theory is appreciated.

And don't get me wrong, it seems like you did a great job with her.. I just want you to shoot for extraordinary. And just begin to condition yourself to see the opportunity.

I sent you an email btw.

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cool man I'll check it out! A lot of ppl would probably think it went great, but I'm my own worst critic and expect better from myself so I rate it as sub par, but as I was walking home tonight I stopped by this place and got a huge ass ice cream cone. For a joke I texted her a pic and said not quite maple ridge, but it'll do in a pinch lol. Just a ping haven't heard back we'll see what happens. I'm gonna let her come to me if I don't hear anything from her I'll call her later in the week she told me to keep her posted and let her know if I have a fight this weekend so if I don't hear from her I'll give her a call later in the week. She's a cool girl I hope I didn't screw it up, but also she's not the only girl I'm seeing and there's a lot of other cool girls out there. I've finally trained myself to think in abundance and not be dependant on outcomes. So we'll see what happens.

And literally as I'm typing that she texts me back. Not gonna jump the gun I'll give her a call later tonight or tomorrow.

This may sound a bit corny lol, but both you Eddie and Heywood have given me the best most helpful advice on here I really appreciate it in the past few months I've taken my game to a whole new level albeit I had an off night yesterday, but aside from that lately I've been on fire not just with women, but my job my fight career and getting my new place. I give you guys credit for helping me get to where I'm at now.