What's up People? I am looking for some advice. Was banging a hb10 for a few months then she accused me of texting her too much while she was on vacation. Anyway, that is bullshit and I figure she just met someone else. I want nothing to do with her anymore but I do want to fuck one last time. Truth is I don't even want to talk to her, so I am asking how to word a text message. I could really take it or leave but I never got a chance to fuck her in the ass so that is what I want to do. The plan is to meet her in a hotel. Always banged her hard and she loved it, but I am a little mad so any advice on wording the message would help. thanks.

I believe this is the layout of the basic beta psychology. I don't think anal sex as on hate-sex will help you get over her. Take a reality-check and just deal with what's happening. No one is going to help you to manipulate her in bed with you just because you 're mad. Take the next step and try to be a better man than the selfabsorbed little guy that you portrayed yourself as, with this post.

Yes, I am a beta male and that is why I am looking for advice. I'm mad I didn't have the money to go on vacation with her.. not really mad at her. It is what it is, and that is something I want to do, and she'd be into. Sorry if that is too graphic. You made a few assumptions, some right and some wrong. Thanks for the response though.

You're still hung up on her, and having sex w her one more time has nothing to do with this. You're hoping to rock her world in the sack so she can't get you out of her mind. You're living in a dream land, get out your head and start living your life.

Maybe bro, but I think I just want to hit that 1 more time because I know it's over and want to do it on my terms. In the past breakup sex has always been the amazing.

So long as your ego is in it, and you succumb to it you're trapped. Clinging onto something unhealthy because of ego is a step backwards. You won't feel better, you'll only feel far worse in knowing you've given her all the power once again.

How have I given her all the power if that situation comes to fruition?

Ok.

1) you're seeking comfort in maintaining the attachment by settling for sex
2) you're looking for validation from guys here that the chance can occur, you're clinging at this point
3) the sex isn't what you want, you want to keep her feminine energy exclusive to you which likely won't happen sex or no

You're kidding yourself. This will hurt a lot more until you learn to accept its over and move on. Remaning in the past, or trying to cling to shards of it will only keep you locked in the cycle, and in that sense render you powerless - which in and of itself is the illusion because the choice has been and always will be on you to make that final decision to let the past remain in the past and begin to live your life again, freeing up energy for something new, whatever that 'new' is.

Son of a bitch, I want to keep arguing with you, but deep down I know you are right.

It's what I do for a living, also I'm likely much more experienced (and older) than you.

Well I've made some assumptions because you portrayed yourself like this guy /watch?v=H42jVUavXiA

Just trying to help you out man. Sorry if I was a bit of a harsh and blunt. Hope you got the gist of what I wanted you to get