I would also agree and say you're friendzoned. Tricky situation though. I've been in the all dreaded friend zone quite a few years ago. Generally there's always chemistry there, but the guy is giving her all that she requires on an emotional level without her having to put out. She bragged about her having the best body in the group, you missed a prime opp to throw a neg in, instead you validated her.

Sounds like on one level she wants you but I reckon if you just go for it you'll get rejected. You need to turn the tables and get her chasing you instead of you putting it on her.

I agree. If you are in the friendzone now you can easily get out of it this time.

I'm trying to do that now. Instead of walking up to a big group she's in ill walk past and let her find me. She came and found me the other day and asked me if I wanted to walk around with her. She wrote "call me " on something she knows I'd see but I can't call her because her phone met the concrete. Asked how she expected me to call her and she said "you can't but you can Facebook me". She seems like she's a little more persistent about getting to me this past week. Anxious to see how this week goes.

Let us know! If you want you can always pm me.

Thanks. I might take you up on that. One of the things I thought of was telling her "I've had a lot of people tell me I should ask you out" then see what her expression is from there. That can easily be dismissed into being friends saying idk why or turn into a relationship if she starts smiling or something.

I dont think that's a good idea. From my perspective this shows a lack of initiative, and if i think that you can be pretty damn sure she'll think at least the same or even worse. No, I think you should just go out together and start flirting seriously with kino escalation. Then, when you are sure she's into you and you want to do something special, then take her to some place (the best is if you are one of the few knowing about that place) and kiss. This will show that you have initiative and self-confidence, something that girls really like.

Just be a bit distant for a bit so she's wondering why you're not her lapdog anymore then ask her out in person and catch her off guard.

Yes, but at the same time don't go away for too long

I've been trying to act kinda distant. Like I said she's gotten to the point where she'll track me down and find me even if she has no idea where I'm at in an area. The last time I was around her she didn't act physically like she was too into me but she'll say things that seem it. Like writing "call me;-)". She did poke me repeatidly and try to tickle me. She had been holding a drink that was cold and she put her hand on my face to how me how cold it was, but she held it for a minute and did it again. She invited me to walk around with her, she came to me to borrow a pen, she'll do little things that seem it.

But the last time I was near her, her pupils weren't wide but it was also really bright outside. Heard they won't always be wide on occasion? She mentioned to me her friends don't take her to lunch anymore maybe hinting me to to take her? Or am i way over thinking this?

I think you are overanalysing the situation you've got there. If you rely on her pupils to make a move then take her somewhere dark...
I think you should ask her out and do kino escalation til you k-close or even f-close. At the worst, she will say no and you'll say "ok, chill. I just thought you wanted it".

One of the things I've been toying with is going to lunch together, just the two of us. If we're by ourself she'll put her forehead on my shoulder, only for a few seconds but sometimes pretty frequently. I was thinking when she does that to kick my arm around her side and escalate from there. She seems like shed enjoy that. My main trouble, like I've said, is how little we're around eachother. I have to get that time up.

The original post is from the 6th, it's now the 20th, and you have not made a move, or even kissed her yet? WTF?

Interest has an expiration date.

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You know what to do. JUST DO IT NOW!!!

did you ever think that if you went for the kiss when the time was there, that maybe just maybe she would make more time? you can tell your boss over and over again that I wont be late again, but if you have been late before, they aren't gonna believe what your saying. no ones telling you just fuck her, they are telling you to kiss her because you can verbally tell a girl over and over I like you and your my girlfriend but they aren't gonna believe your words only your actions.

I agree with last post 6th to the 20th if you dont act by atleast kissing this girl soon shes gonna bail. you say theirs very little time with her. what makes you so sure that other guys aren't doing the same thing you are. if one of them kisses her first before you and she has any sort of attachment to that person shes gonna give more time to that person and your gonna be sitting here doing the same thing youve done this whole time.

I like to call it "Shoulda Woulda Coulda, Oh well"

in junior high had a major crush on a girl years later after she is married with three children she tells me she had a crush on her, i tell her I did to. how I wanted to kiss her, saying I would have if I had known. her words were exactly that "Oh well"

stop thinking about how to guarantee a kiss and act. everyone already agrees that you have the open window, but they also see that its gonna close if you dont act.

Ever seen a cute cashier somewhere whose eyes lit up the first few times you saw her then say on like the 10th time or so, they stopped. thats when the window closes

if nothing else gets through to you

all you gotta do is kiss the girl

did you ever think that if you went for the kiss when the time was there, that maybe just maybe she would make more time? you can tell your boss over and over again that I wont be late again, but if you have been late before, they aren't gonna believe what your saying. no ones telling you just fuck her, they are telling you to kiss her because you can verbally tell a girl over and over I like you and your my girlfriend but they aren't gonna believe your words only your actions.

I agree with last post 6th to the 20th if you dont act by atleast kissing this girl soon shes gonna bail. you say theirs very little time with her. what makes you so sure that other guys aren't doing the same thing you are. if one of them kisses her first before you and she has any sort of attachment to that person shes gonna give more time to that person and your gonna be sitting here doing the same thing youve done this whole time.

I like to call it "Shoulda Woulda Coulda, Oh well"

in junior high had a major crush on a girl years later after she is married with three children she tells me she had a crush on her, i tell her I did to. how I wanted to kiss her, saying I would have if I had known. her words were exactly that "Oh well"

stop thinking about how to guarantee a kiss and act. everyone already agrees that you have the open window, but they also see that its gonna close if you dont act.

Ever seen a cute cashier somewhere whose eyes lit up the first few times you saw her then say on like the 10th time or so, they stopped. thats when the window closes

if nothing else gets through to you

all you gotta do is kiss the girl