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I kinda went with a little of everyone's advice. Maybe too obvious?!

Dress.
Flats.
Some makeup.(too much?)

Thanks, and keep your fingers crossed for me!

It really depends on where you're going.

If you're all dolled up going to some sports bar or a pub, you're probably going to stand out and possibly be intimidating. There, you might want to stick with flats and jeans and a "cute shirt."

But if you're going out to a nice club, exploit yourself as much as you can. Where heels to make your ass look better. Where the dress that makes your tits look huge and hang out. Bust out the spanks. Get your hair and make up perfect. Don't expect to go into a night club with jeans on as a girl and expect guys to notice you.

Just realize that the hotter you make yourself, the more intimidating you are going to be to an average guy.

I will say though.. I have MAD respect for a girl who's self esteem is high enough to be able to approach a guy she's attracted to.

It looks like you've already received some solid advice on the way to dress, and from that pic, looks like you nailed it.

As for approaching the FWB situation, be honest from the start on what you're looking for. That's the advice I received in the past, and the advice I always give on that subject. If the person you're seeing isn't cool with that, whether they want more than that or less than that, end it there.
I find it helps in most FWB situations to not use pet names or call each other cute, etc. When that starts happening someone ends up becoming attached. I sometimes do the opposite of that, as in call them dude, homie, man.
And most importantly be friends! Treat them no better or worse than your other friends. Don't put all your time and effort into them. 70 percent of the time when I'm hanging out with a FWB it's with other people, that's the friend part, when we're alone is where the benefits come in, and that's pretty much just at my house or theirs. I don't go out on dates with them, we don't walk down the street holding hands, we just chill.
That's just what works for me.
Bottom line, be honest with what you want, and just talk about it. Everyone seems to have this idea that they can't talk about that with the people they're seeing.

Good Luck
WC

Many thanks to Majikal and Wellsey.

We're at a nice club, and it's ladies night..but the selection so far is horrible. Tons of wanna-be gangsters and some smartass college guys. Not ONE SINGLE GUY so far smells good enough to interest me. ( I'm very appreciative of good Cologne). Good thing is that we seem to be the only decent ladies here so far...the spandex and sharpie eyebrows are abundant.

So I'm having so much luck I'm on my cell. Keeping my eyes open though..guess I did well with my outfit, getting compliments never fails to make you think there could be hope!

Go with something you're comfortable with i.e. be "you" then amp it up a notch of sexiness.

As someone mentioned you want to attract the right person. Don't go there over-the-top looking like a tramp. Relax, be yourself, be sexy, and most of all, have fun.

Good luck.

Last night was a utter failure...but I'm not giving up.

I'll invest in a billboard if it gets any more ridiculous.

You know, there's always craigslist.

True!! Yet I might end up in a garbage dump missing vital parts, and lacking a heartbeat.

Why was it a failure?