Cheers all, great advice

I won't bother messagng her in a week (told her it's fine) but lesson learnt. Discretion discretion discretion...

This is so obvious..

You didn't make her feel special, joking around about her being nr. 107 just makes her feel like one of those girls. And it sure doesn't make her feel good, not even subconsciously. It doesn't give her a feeling of wanting you or something like that. Saying those kind of things just pushes her away. A girl needs to feel attracted to you, like you're someone who's hard to get for her. Girls love that. But if you have had so many girls you'll just look like a manslut.

(Except when nr. 107 isn't true and it's all a joke, then it's OK and she is just being an asshole.) Age doesn't matter, actually a lot of woman in their 20's rather have a man in their 30's. So that can't be it.

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Cheers for the feedback

I was joking about the 106 girls thing before I was interested in her when I was just being friendly but point taken. How do you make a girl feel special while still letting her know you don't want to commit to her and want to see other women? I did tell her this and she was fine but I worry if I do that she'll get caught up in it and want to be my girlfriend

I don't really know about the age thing enough. I know a lot of girls a bit older than me like older men because girls seem to want something more serious than men at the same age, and usually older men are more on their level...

On the age thing, depends if it are normal women in their 20's or sluts. Many girls in their 20's want someone in their late 20's or early 30's. And if you don't want something serious, just say: 'I don't want something serious.' But you can still make her feel like you do. Seems a bit harsh, but... I do it all the time. I warn them that I'm not that kind of guy. Usually I say(when they want to get exclusive): In a relationship, I'm very sweet, romantic and I will do anything to make you happy. I won't flirt with other girls, I won't disrespect you in any kind of way and most of all, in a relationship you can trust me because I won't cheat. BUT, when I'm not in a relationship, I can't offer you all that. Some of it, but not all of it. And usually they say that they understand me. Even the psycho girls say it, it doesn't mean they'll stop trying, but they understand.

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