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PostPosted: Fri Jun 20, 2014 12:21 pm 
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How far can you go in showing attraction to the girl in order to make her interested in you? Where is the line?


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How far can you go in showing attraction to the girl in order to make her interested in you? Where is the line?
Personally, going a little over board is better than understating attraction. I will tell a girl she is hot, start to hold her hand or touch or body and say she is so hot I can't handle myself. I find that building it up big leaves no doubt in her mind and then either get the hookup or leave. Even leaving like a boss after the huge buildup leaves her wondering why a guy so into her dipped with no extended effort. He must get tons of women , huh?

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How far can you go in showing attraction to the girl in order to make her interested in you? Where is the line?
Personally, going a little over board is better than understating attraction. I will tell a girl she is hot, start to hold her hand or touch or body and say she is so hot I can't handle myself. I find that building it up big leaves no doubt in her mind and then either get the hookup or leave. Even leaving like a boss after the huge buildup leaves her wondering why a guy so into her dipped with no extended effort. He must get tons of women , huh?
True, but it looks to me that you make her feel too important this way. I always try to be the important one when I talk to a girl by using negs or DHV. With your way she has the power to choose if stay with you or not, while i want the opposite. I like to be chased ;)


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How far can you go in showing attraction to the girl in order to make her interested in you? Where is the line?
Personally, going a little over board is better than understating attraction. I will tell a girl she is hot, start to hold her hand or touch or body and say she is so hot I can't handle myself. I find that building it up big leaves no doubt in her mind and then either get the hookup or leave. Even leaving like a boss after the huge buildup leaves her wondering why a guy so into her dipped with no extended effort. He must get tons of women , huh?
True, but it looks to me that you make her feel too important this way. I always try to be the important one when I talk to a girl by using negs or DHV. With your way she has the power to choose if stay with you or not, while i want the opposite. I like to be chased ;)
Aiming to be chased if you are looking for a one night stand is stupid. If you want to build a relationship, then fine. Who has time in one night to build that connection? I get in, let her know I want her with hardcore signs and then continue doing me. I feel her vibe, then I am in.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 20, 2014 1:37 pm 
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Aiming to be chased if you are looking for a one night stand is stupid. If you want to build a relationship, then fine. Who has time in one night to build that connection? I get in, let her know I want her with hardcore signs and then continue doing me. I feel her vibe, then I am in.
Not always true. It takes longer for sure, but it works for one night stands as well, believe me.
I still think that by doing things in a hardcore way you risk more to be shut down than by coming and give her a little after a little... Of course, your way is much better if you don't want to waste time.


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 20, 2014 1:39 pm 
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Aiming to be chased if you are looking for a one night stand is stupid. If you want to build a relationship, then fine. Who has time in one night to build that connection? I get in, let her know I want her with hardcore signs and then continue doing me. I feel her vibe, then I am in.
Not always true. It takes longer for sure, but it works for one night stands as well, believe me.
I still think that by doing things in a hardcore way you risk more to be shut down than by coming and give her a little after a little... Of course, your way is much better if you don't want to waste time.
It is mainly because I do not give a fuck. Try to take it as non-conceded as possible if you can, but I have been told I am very good looking by so many girls and that is why they are timid to converse with me or think I would be interested in them. Little did I know that if I just became the natural whore that I am and put myself out there hardcore, it eased them into the situation and it was candy.

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It is mainly because I do not give a fuck. Try to take it as non-conceded as possible if you can, but I have been told I am very good looking by so many girls and that is why they are timid to converse with me or think I would be interested in them. Little did I know that if I just became the natural whore that I am and put myself out there hardcore, it eased them into the situation and it was candy.
Maybe that's why they need you to make them DHV. ;)


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It is mainly because I do not give a fuck. Try to take it as non-conceded as possible if you can, but I have been told I am very good looking by so many girls and that is why they are timid to converse with me or think I would be interested in them. Little did I know that if I just became the natural whore that I am and put myself out there hardcore, it eased them into the situation and it was candy.
Maybe that's why they need you to make them DHV. ;)
Relationship wise, sure. But that is me. If I chat them up a small bit, a compliment here and there and just straight to touching, it is a go.

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It is mainly because I do not give a fuck. Try to take it as non-conceded as possible if you can, but I have been told I am very good looking by so many girls and that is why they are timid to converse with me or think I would be interested in them. Little did I know that if I just became the natural whore that I am and put myself out there hardcore, it eased them into the situation and it was candy.
Maybe that's why they need you to make them DHV. ;)
Relationship wise, sure. But that is me. If I chat them up a small bit, a compliment here and there and just straight to touching, it is a go.
It's good, but remember that if you want things to go further than a one night stand, this isn't enough


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 20, 2014 3:34 pm 
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Yes, that's my point ;)

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