It's fine. Openers barely matter, provided it's something that allows you to move forward.
No, you don't do everything the same.
You're usually looking at attraction over the course of two days or more. You have plenty of time, so rushing things like you have to do in a club(with pretty low success) is not required. Also you're both sober.
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Build an emotional connection through your hard throbbing cock.
Build trust and comfort by holding their hands and covertly rubbing your elbows on their nipples.
RSDTyler