So I'm dealing with this girl who basically lashed out on me for no reason. She's one of those spoiled princess type girls - but her family's not rich or anything. We had plans to hang out on Sat but she got sick and called me up and said she had to cancel - I said, that's cool I have a lot of other things to do so it's no inconvenience to me. Are you ok? What's wrong? When will you get better, etc. She said she had a bug or whatever.

Anyways later that night I text her:
Me: Hey, I'm at this amazing rooftop party, just wanted to see how your doing
Her: Whoa thanks so much for taking time off of ur glamorous life to rub it in my face how generous of u I'm fine thanks

I do NOT reply or talk to her. I think I made the smart move by doing that. Cause it's stupid to have a serious talk via text.

She sends me the next day:
Me: Hey sorry about my last txt I was really upset and I took it out on u

I didn't reply. She panicked a bit, check my online profiles, and finally called me.
"Hey, what's up?
Me: "Im im the studio recording music"
her: I just wanted to say I'm sorry for saying that to you, I had an argument with my mom and I was mad.
Me: (I act distant and cold) "Ok, cool"
Her: you sound distant.
Me: No, I seen your txt and all that I'm just busy. I rather talk to you about this in person, can't talk right now in on the busy side.
Her: Ok, I ttyl I can see your busy
Me: Ok, I'll see you this week?
Her: Ya I'm free on X day
Me: I'll check my schedule and see if I can make it

I want this girl to respect me, I respect her and I want her to see me as a man. I don't want to be a doormat and let her get away with that stuff - do I ignore this, make an issue out of this or confront her and let her know I'm not to be spoken to like that. Also was I too easy to let her hang out with me again?

The day she recommended me hanging out with her I'm busy - should I reschedule or just say I can't make it
As a general rule how do you deal with girls bad behavior.

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Good play.

She's already respecting you. No need to amp it up.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Set it up and reschedule a few hours before hand.

Keep up the "no big deal" attitude though. Good shit.

I feel a lot of guys that read this "pua" material take it a bit too literal and forget to be themselves. Theres no need to play it " SUPER COOL".. The guy that is "super" cool is the guy that is unaffected by the bitchy behavior; he doesn't need to react or ignore her, he continues being himself and by him continuing to be himself the girl will revert back to being herself.

And take the word "busy" out of your vocabulary.. If you're busy, you won't need to say it, your mannerism and shortness of sentence will imply that in itself. Hell, if you're that busy you wouldn't of even picked up the phone.

Just like the rooftop party text.. If the rooftop party was that amazing; you would not be thinking to text some girl while you're surrounding by women at some amazing rooftop party. You don't need to big up your life when your life is actually big. People will catch the vibe and adjust themselves accordingly.

" This rooftop party I'm at blows.. I'd much rather be kicking it with you" - thats a text that I would of sent

I'm not trying to be cool.. If i want a girl, I'm going to let her know.. If i don't i won't be talking to her.

When women actually want to be around you, you can be very nice and sweet to them because it really doesn't matter. They want to be around you because you're awesome as person, not because you do "awesome things"

I pray that sticks

Much love.

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