Here are the do's and don'ts that have helped me discovery the Alpha Male mentality within me.
Starting from the Subjective state of mind
1: Don't be needy; an Alpha Male doesn't look to anything outside of his own resources for help or comfort
2: Learn how to face life...and the unknowns that come with it; Everyday is a new CHALLENGE, so suck up your pride and your ego. Take on the challenges of "living with/for a greater cause" ...
3: ...Courageously
4: ...Passionately
5: ...and with Ambition
Transitioning to the Objective state of mind
6: embrace the ideology of "Taking care of your own" first
7: believe (with confidence) that THE WORLD IS YOURS, Life IS OPPORTUNITY! and whatever you set you mind to CAN BE YOURS
8: be humble! the world is yours, but it's not for you to abuse. Do not exalt yourself. Be greater than no man, but the man you were yesterday. You have no need to prove anything to any man or woman for that matter.
9: be secure in who you are: your beliefs, your passions, your choices
10: Set goals to ACCOMPLISH, you can't measure what hasn't been sought out to achieve
11: reserve your strength/power for the goals you seek to accomplish
12: don't hesitate with opportunity strikes (goes along with 3 second rule)
13: be able to constantly think on the spot and make on the spot decisions (shows your wittiness)
14: go after what you want aggressively!! NO THING NEVER COMES to those who were NEVER WILLING TO FIGHT for it.
15: patience never rush a good thing, most of all success
16: LOVE the most powerful emotion and the only one that can overcame hate/disdain/ill thinking
BODY LANGUAGE
1: Mind over matter; it all starts in the head, your thinking - FOCUSED, CLEAR MINDED (no distractions), stay OBJECTIVE BOUND in a strong subjective frame of mind
2: EYE CONTACT is the first communicator of body language. it all starts in the head right?
3: FACIAL EXPRESSION the most powerful facial expression is having no facial expression. The most attractive facial expression is a smile
3: NO SUDDEN MOVEMENTS, your body control should be as fluid and in control as your mind over your emotions
4: IOI's and IOD's learn them, study them, master them (practice studying these in men - alpha men in particular and women; you'll pick on the signs alpha men give women and women give alpha men)
5: Strong, clear, but suttle attention to IOI's women GIVE YOU and DON'T HESITATE TO RESPOND WITH YOUR OWN IOI's (remember 3 second rule)
6: Direct IOI's of body language WHEN YOU HAVE VALIDATED A WOMAN'S PRESENCE..YOU VALIDATE HER! alpha male

- verbal opener (if you've done what you were supposed to do and studied/assessed the girl to be valid..complimenting, stacked assumptions based on OBSERVATATION showing your control of GREATER ATTENTION)
- physical opener based on proximity (wink, head nod, smile, a gesture of attraction, or simply close the distance and GET HER TALKING)
hope these Alpha Male guidelines help you secure the AMP'd up guy in you. Best and GL