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PostPosted: Sat Jun 14, 2014 8:05 pm 
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Hey guys, i still consider myself a newbie in pick up but one day i'll be good (i hope) and i was wondering if i should tell my family and friends about it.
Do you guys revealed and what were the short and long-term reactions?


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2014 12:12 am 
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Nobody cares. It doesn't make you magical. People will notice if you suddenly get girls. My sister and her fiance certainly did. They'll generally start asking you for advice too.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2014 2:43 am 
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lol no don't tell anyone at all. Like never tell them about pua. I tried to get my friends thinking the right way about girls and they got pissed at me; i didnt even mention pua or any of these terms not even alpha. They don't and won't understand because they are so AFC you can't explain it to them.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2014 3:42 pm 
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i would keep it secret to yourself,because it may come back to slap you in the face when you reveal it because
your friends will think you are a loser if you arent good at it.PUA is basically making yourself better so its just for you!

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2014 4:13 pm 
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I wouldn't tell anybody. They'll view you as a slut.

"Are you still seeing Stacy??"
"Uhh, nope, I'm seeing Sara now."

If you're anything like me, you'll start to be with many women. And they won't last long. Some girls are only worth fucking. I know whenever I came across a chick like that, I just hit it and never talked to them again.

I wouldn't get your friends/family involved until you know you'll be in an LTR with her.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2014 5:26 pm 
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lol no don't tell anyone at all. Like never tell them about pua. I tried to get my friends thinking the right way about girls and they got pissed at me; i didnt even mention pua or any of these terms not even alpha. They don't and won't understand because they are so AFC you can't explain it to them.
^This. My acquaintances (wings) could not get into it and just didn't agree with the concepts. I believe that was due to the fact that these guys were never popular with the ladies, so they had nothing to compare to.

I believe someone needs to have a genuine interest in improving their odds and be willing to accept that maybe they've been doing things wrong. You can't plant an idea in someone's head because they'll typically reject it, like Inception. I realized this as one of my boys, that I had met through the acquaintances, who was totally into it (he's more of a Natural). I gave him the Art of Seduction book and he was very receptive.

Despite that, I normally wouldn't tell anyone. This is our secret society, bros. Keep it that way.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2014 8:06 pm 
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and besides we don't want any MRAs and Feminists in here. Those people are weird and the weirdest people are the guys who are all giddy and happy about feminism.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2014 2:32 pm 
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thanks everyone, i think i'll keep it a secret =)


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2014 2:44 pm 
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Just live your life, maybe make amusing comments about your situations with girls. Show don't tell, if you want people to know.

If you suddenly go from 0 to 100 with girls, people will notice - they'll either ascribe it to you "coming out of your shell" or if they have any knowledge of the community, they might have an idea.

I don't talk directly to many of my friends about PUA, but they're well aware of the situation. Any guy (and even many girls) in his 20s or early 30s who wants to do better with women is AWARE of it - it's the elephant in the room.

Mention it to friends you trust that want to get better with women. Most will reject it at first, especially if you're just starting out - it'll just be "that weird pickup thing you do".

But results speak for themselves. That's why my oldest buddy, who made fun of it and was opposed has come around and is now asking me how he can, "reach abundance" and such. Results are obvious and tangible.


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