God evening from Norway!

So this is my first post on this forum, not saying I'm new her, since I've reading constantly for the past weeks. I have always had a natural way to talk to women, but more in the "HEYHEY, CAN I PLEASE BE YOUR FRIEND" kind of way. Felt like I actually were going somewhere with most women I talked to, but hey, fuck me right, this was not the case. I just got stuck in this fucking friendzone place, and when I tried to climb up from there dark pit I jumped head first into, I became needy, looked insecure, and went from a person they COULD talk to, to the random needy "HEY LET ME TAKE YOU OUT AND I CAN SHOW YOU HOW MUCH I LIKE YO" kind of guy!

So I've been reading books, and just trying to improve myself on this area, and in general
But I just ran across a problem, and I could use some advice from somebody with more experience with this sort of predicament.

There is a girl I've been talking to alot lately, I have known her for a couple of years now, and guess what, I trew away that needy 'insecure of myself' bullshit, and instead became more cocky funny, self secure man. I could feel in an instance that she was more into me, because the "in your face" way I became when later on trying to get a girl to get out with me, is now her. She is texting, snaping me quite frequently I might add. Okey, if there is one ting I have learned it is to always keep advancing. I called the girl (Let's call her Lisa, original right?) and talked for an hour or so, she was laughing, giving me compliments, and I was becoming more cocky then I probably shood, but she eat that shit up. So I asked if she was free on Friday, and she was, so we planed on meeting up for a glass of wine at my place, "maybe with a girlfriend of mine to" she said.

This is a mutual friend of ours, that processes not kind of sexual attraction what so ever, so I agreed.

BUT here comes the kicker. She called this mutual friend of ours, and she probably could't come, so Lisa try's to change the location to a more public scene all the time, and if she sees that will not work, she cancels.. Let me give you a couple of examples

1. Some weeks ago I said I should come visit when she was house sitting for her parents. Yeah a girlfriend is also coming buy, but I should come to. The girlfriend canceled, and it was just me that was coming, an hour before I went to my car, she sent a text telling me she wasn't feeling good (she sent a snap laying in the sun an smiling like a fucking baby on Christmas eve an hour before that)

2. And tomorrow we where supposed to take a glass of wine at my place, but the clock is ticking, and jet again she is getting cold feet of meeting up with JUST me. So first she sent a text telling my that we have to go to the movies. PLEASE I thought to myself, test me you shall, but I will stand firm like a man an politely decline, because after a hard work with alot of overtime, I would fall asleep in an instance, and probably not be any good company. Yeah okey, she understood that. A couple of hours later she sent another text, this time she wanted to go to a concert, telling my we will have to go to that. I said what a energy bomb she is, I love it. But again, I am shitty company when i'm tiered.

But she REALLY don't want to meet up with just ME, and that is okey, but when none of her friend can join us, she gets all pumped up, like she is trying to push me away
I know she is way into me, but I know this girl, she is ALWAYS like this, it is like she finds a guy she likes, acts like she is on speed, running around in circles and after a while she gets the guy to comply with her wants, or she pushes the guy away.

I am COMPLETELY stuck right now, I know if i take her to this concert, she is going to run around like an horny cat and talking to everybody, acting like she always does when there is a guy that she like, completely turn the sexual tension off the table, and my chance will fall to the ground. Should I NOW invite her to the movies, after i rejected her offer? Or maybe bust her on what she is doing?

Any idea's guy?
(Sorry if this is the wrong side of the forum to write this)


Regards
Herjar

She's not interested. Go cold on her and game others.

She may come back to you, she may not...

Yeah, went out with her today. We made out like there was no tomorrow, then she started to drink, drink, drink, and I had to call her a cab.. Game over for sure, not even gonna try. But I really liked the challenge...