even if she's hot, when there are so many single girls out there?

just wondering if my way of seeing things is wrong.

I avoid it because of the potential for things to get messy. Truth is, IMHO, is that if she has a BF it is an agreement between those two, not you and her or him and you or anyone else. If she wants to flirt, then flirt. The boyfriend is her problem.

I would agree with this for the most part. And I also would not normally go trying to break up relationships.

Your own ethical boundaries come into play as well. Only you know what you're OK with... If you've got no issue and don't mind a little extra drama, then go for it.

Don't do it to friends or family. Otherwise it's her cheating not you.

p.s. Always double check the dude is not a pimp/drug dealer/bouncer/police officer first. Ideally, he should be a nerd or a weak beta douche.

+1

I don't man.


That shit comes back around; sure you can deal with it.. women come and go, but if you do, just be prepared for something like it to happen to you one day.

Its really your choice, but I'm not going to affect someone negatively emotionally if I don't have to.

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my opinion is that a really pua/don juan wouldnt do it. maybe i have too many rules. but i wouldnt go and destroy a relationship unless the guy was a complete bastard.

there is so many fish in the sea. and i sure wouldnt like a guy doing it to me.

Not your relationship, not your problem.

If she's super happy and you'd just be trashing her relationship, I'd say don't do it, but if she's going to cheat/break up with him (and this is usually how girls decide to break up with a guy), then sure, why not.

No big.

Hey mate this is how I look at it. Whenever I meet someone guy or girl I want them to be happy they met me, and if a guy is with his girl and I'm blatantly hitting on her with no regard for him he's not gonna be happy he met me and I don't think that's something a real player would do. However if a girl is un happy in her relationship and comes to me or I meet her and find this out then I don't have a problem because 1st if she's out looking for "happiness" to fill the void her relationship has left her with then the relationship is as good as over and I might as well be the guy to make her feel better, but there's been times I've met a girl at a bar she was there with her bf I lightly flirt with her with no ulterior motives talk to him just have a good time we all have fun, but at the end of the day trashing someones relationship isn't cool I wouldn't want that done to me in the end the girl is not gonna feel good about it the guy will most likely be hurt by it you're not gonna feel good about it so why do it? Plus I don't think that's something a real player would do you wanna you want to leave everyone you meet better off than when you found them.

Just my opinion though.