Hey guys,
Im over 35+, 6’2’’ (1.86 cm), fit body, face is 6. I am introverted mostly and not much social in my whole life. I had been beta and chode all my life until I learnt game.
I am in game for more than 2 years. I started to approach girls 14 months ago. I want to make some reflections about my approaches.
1- Since I hit mostly girls younger more than 10 years of me, I use indirect method. I live in a conservative and strong social groups state, and I am approaching only local girls. Since I dont have value before the approach, I dont believe direct method is suitable for me. To be honest, I dont have courage to say one of the local 15 year younger girls “you are georgeous”. It seems to me they didnt deserve it, and if i say it i will be seen as creepy.
2-I have dates with some girls, but no girl was relationship material. Many of them were in 5-6s range. 7s and upper just were out of my reach. Now Im focusing on my style and lifestyle to hit upper range young girls. Until now Im not successful. Maybe they are out of my league. Many young girls think that I am old for them I guess, since this is a conservtive region.
3-All of numbers were from malls, supermarkets, bookstores etc. I made Street apporaches as well asking “ where is nereast starbucks” and for transition “ you have Accent”, “you have nice style” etc. From streets I didnt get any number until now. Street game is not for me I guess. It needs more direct style, I wonder is there any guy who is successful on Street from indirect approach.

My 2 problems are
1-I have difficulty to get number from street game by using indirect approach. Anybody successful on streets by indirect game? If so, what kind of method do you use?
2-Until now, I couldnt get date with 7s and above girls. Do you think they are out of my league? Or should i persist approaching more, since my technics will be better in future maybe?

No reply from anybody??????

I've never done any street game, and I can tell you exactly why...

1. Normally you have very little time to do your magic, which is the reason why you need to be very direct. Chasing girls on the street and tell them they look gorgeous seems weird to me, as if you are desperate or something. That's why I've never been a fan of street game.

2. Stopping someone on the street and trying to do some small talk on the other hand will never work since you will look creepy, unless the situation allows it. The girl must be relaxed, preferrably sitting down and have no plans of going anywhere. But where does that happen? Usually on the beach, in a park, in a club... Anywhere but the street!

In any case, direct or indirect, the whole point is to offer some value. You need to be fun, interesting, stimulating and whatnot. So focus on offering value instead, and ignore street game altogether.

If you haven't tried a direct approach how can you be sure it won't work for you? It sounds like indirect hasn't been working amazingly and it doesn't sound like changing your style and lifestyle is the answer.

You don't have to tell girls they're gorgeous if you don't think they are... why don't you say they're nice or attractive?