So I met this girl, a few weeks ago. On the first date I felt up on her and licked her tits she jerked me off a little but didn't wanna give me a blow job because "she doesn't do that on the first date". She's told me she has had 1 one night stand but says that was a mistake.

Go out on a second date and we don't fool around

Go out on a third date we make-out, jerks me off, I finger her. Still wont give me a blow job, so I freeze out, she leaves. I broke up with her.

What was I doing wrong here? What kind of girl is this and how do you deal with this?

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Note to self: Don't Trip

This is the two steps foreword one step back principle.

You push to her comfort level, then step back, then try again later.

Some girls do not like giving head. Some girls will not kiss you on the first date. But you can have sex with these girls. She is not comfortable with oral sex, but was letting you touch her still. That means her comfort threshold was just different.

Next time, if I were in your shoes, I would have tried for a full close.

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Some girls just don't like to do it man...

It could be for several different reasons...

Maybe she sucks dick at sucking dick and she doesn't want to embarrass herself?

Maybe she thinks its degrading?

Either way... It has to do with how comfortable she is around you.

You should try going down on her (instead of just fingering her) and show her that you want to please her too and you aren't just looking to use her to blow your load. I'll give you a tip for future reference... if you want to fuck a girl in the ass, you're going to have to stick your tongue in and around her asshole. It might gross you out but if you wanna stick your dick in there, you've gotta do it.

You've gotta warm her up to the idea, get her turned on, and let her emotions take over..

You also might not be able to get her to suck your dick for a while... I've had girls where we've had sex 4, 5, 6, even one girl took 2 months of having sex practically once a week for her to want to give me head... She just took a while to get more comfortable doing it.