okay, so i really like this girl. I've known her for about 1 1/2 years but did not meet her until about 2 weeks ago. I dont know what I'm supposed to do now! the first week...she was really into me and txting me like crazy. now its like...she seems alot less enthusiastic and i want to keep her interested. We haven't really gone anywhere, we usually just hang at her apartment and watch shows or movies or "other activities". I really like her and don't want to lose her, because i feel like she is a really good match for me. It's really weird becuz before she used to tell me how she thinks she likes me way more than i like her and now, it seems like she doesn't really care. I don't know what to do!

Dont make yourself so available, hang out with your friends and other chicks. Only call her once a week. If she is really right she will come back. Time and space usually works these things out. And the sex is great when they do!!!

I agree, the old saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" holds true for your situation I believe. When you do hang out try and go somewhere exciting, hanging out at an apartment can only be fun so many times in a row, ya know what I mean.

Also you may want to suprise her with a last minute trip somewhere. Or make her a dinner. Just make it personal, something you have to put some thought into.

do i ignore the txt messages she sends then? what should i do? I mean...what if she sends me a txt just saying hi?

Say hi back, tell her you have been a little busy and stuff and you will try to talk to her later. Bust her balls and say to her how much SHE must miss you!! Just try not to sound like an jerk. Make it funny.

wow...she txted me today...she said...hey, is something wrong? we haven't talked since friday.
LOL

I didnt learn that shit until i was 32. Wish i knew sooner. We only miss what we dont have. Good luck!!!

cat string theory bro.

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