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The "will you buy me a drink" question is a catch 22 question.
It can have a lot of meanings. There's a lot of reasons why women may ask it. Logical reasons may range from, she has a sense of entitlement to free drinks since she's a female and your a male and she opened. She uses it to gauge to see if you are strong or weak; the weak man in her eye may do it easier than the strong. She may be looking specifically for the man who refuses. She may be shy, and want to speak with the guy, and not know any other way to open him. She may be judging how freely the money flows from the wallet. She may use it to judge the reaction in general. It's a safe simple way for her to open and she has guidelines of what shes looking for in the conversation thereafter.
To accurately read the situation and respond with the highest degree of success, can take months or even years of a similar interaction to learn from. My typical reaction in a bar, no matter how hot they are, is to answer the question with another question.
Why, yes. Thank you. It's cool to know the reasons why. I think, this girl used the shit test to gauge the level of any remaining interest left since I went NC on her for 2 months.
It's a question of: "Does this guy still want me?" So as others suggested, the real shit test was not the buy me a drink but how much I wanted her pussy.
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