Guys, I think what I'm about to say can easily come across as someone who's complaining and whiny but those that know me, know I'm the complete opposite. I'm more confused if anything and want to know the truth. I feel like the odds are against me, I have a stroke of bad luck and I'm destined for woman not to like me.

Examples:

*Woman like tall guys - I'm 5'4 (age 22) and probably stopped growing. (5'7 w/ lifts)
*Woman like guys with status: I don't have any friends or a active life. No car or apt.
*Woman like guys with Money: I dropped out of school young, I got sick, my dad never taught me anything, I'm unemployed and don't know how to make a lot of money to provide for myself or others.
*Woman like guys with a low voice: My voice is a bit damaged so my vocal chords are strained and my voice is rashly at times or high. My voice is also not loud - I occasionally mumble. I do rehab for it.
*Woman like guys with low body fat/in shape: I used to be 270, I now weigh 155 and still have fat on me. Tummy, thighs etc.
*Woman like healthy guys: I have club feet, an auto immune muscle disease (I'm healed tho), my sleep pattern is off, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, acid reflux, irritable bowel syndrome.
*Woman like guys who can protect them: I'm small framed, can't make a fist due to my illness and my hands are VERY sensitive to pain. Never been in a fight.
*Woman like guys with high testosterone/masculinity: my T level is 438 and at times I don't feel masculine. I feel like I'm not a man. I don't act masculine.
***Woman like guys with larger penises: a girl I dated from okc, who was a virgin, criticized me and constantly called me small it had a serious effect on me and I spiraled into a massive depression and lost self-worth and self-esteem.

IMPORTANT: why did I post all this? To explain to you guys all the things that bother me and ask how I can defeat them - NOT complain. I put a lot of deep thought and effort into making this list so a simple, "just snap out of it bro" won't help. Each one of these issues effect/hurt me and I'd like to resolve all of them so I can feel better (especially the last one mentioned) and be happy. So please put some thought and consideration in your response. Thanks!

NOTES: I feel I'm cheated genetically so therefore I'll only be able to attract girls in my own aesthetics - which would be hot. I recently had a convo with a alpha friend I know who makes 2300 per month on a business he started - he's doing things and he's 6'3, woman like him and here I am with 0. It's more about just getting girls it's about having everything it takes to be a man.

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Do you want to know the only difference between people who experience more GOOD luck and people who experience more BAD luck? The people who experience more good luck believe that they are lucky. And yes, it is possible to change your beliefs.

The height and the penis things, you'll probably have to just get over. Or not, your choice. (Girls' opinions of your penis can vary widely and really, does it matter that much that one girl in the universe said you had a small dick? Serious question.) All the rest of the stuff you mentioned is changeable. And all the stuff I bolded is good shit that you didn't give yourself credit for.

Work on yourself, man. No job? That is an excellent time to spend more time working out, running, lifting weights, studying martial arts. Or: researching career paths, hanging out with your successful friends and seeing what you can learn from them, reading inspirational books, learning to meditate, meeting new friends, working on your voice. Dude, there is so much possibility in life, and all you need to do to open the door is to believe it is possible.

I'd recommend reading Tony Robbins, Eckhart Tolle, and similar authors - find one who resonates with you - to start changing the way you think about life and about yourself. If you're up for it, of course.

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I've already recommended to-dos on all of your other issues and so I'm focusing on this. It's up to you to take action or not or just keep on whining about your list of weaknesses to get attention. Most of us get tired of constant whining on the same things over and over again. So either you DO or you just whine. It's all up to you.

1. My hands were sensitive to pain too but I've trained on the makiwara so it's no longer that painful when I punch hard objects.

2. You can use your palms, elbows, knees, shins, forearms, heel, and so on. You don't need your fists to fight effectively. The most lethal striking parts of the human anatomy are basically the big bones. To condition your bones, see Wolff's law: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wolff%27s_law

3. In my lifetime, I've only been in 3, maybe 5, fights that are life-or-death situations. You're in the US where it's generally peaceful so unless you get drafted to go to war, you'll probably never get into a fight at all. Of course, our crime rate is higher not including crimes that have never been reported.

4. I got into more controlled fights in the martial arts dojo, dojang or gym instead of an actual fight. The fights were so many I've stopped counting after the 100th fight. They call it sparring (soft sparring, medium sparring, hard sparring, body contact sparring and full contact sparring). Some fights require gloves especially in Muay Thai and kickboxing gyms. WTF TKD fights require body armor, head gear, gloves, instep pads, shin guards, groin guard, mouth guard, and forearm guard. TKD is basically weak for actual self defense but you'll get a good fat burner workout with the combination kicks. You take everything in in Karate so you'll get used to a lot of pain.

5. If you know how to use the Yawara stick, you're basically good in an actual fight.

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Hey dude I 2nd what Hellhound says about martial arts I'm personally gonna reccomend you look into taking up Muay Thai. Its called to science of 8 limbs hands elbows shins and knees so if your hands aren't your strong point you have 6 other weapons. Quality Muay Thai gyms can be hard to come by in the US (if indeed that's where you live) if that is something you're interested in pursuing feel free to PM me I have over 12yrs in the game and have trained all over north america I can help you find a decent place if you're interested.

I also have to say there are a lot of articles on pua websites explaining the benefits of training martial arts a lot of top players train in martial arts, and training in Muay Thai as well as boxing has helped me with every aspect of my life more than I can ever explain.

Hope that helps good luck mate!

You have the hand you were dealt.

Play with it.

Self improvement is the way to getting the best women. Even at your height, there are girls that will date you.

I recommend Asians, they seem to really like smaller body frames. I've moved to a town with a high concentration of Asians and I've had pretty good luck (I'm 150 lbs and 5'8")

I think you're only paying attention to every reason why you're not being successful and then wondering why your circumstances haven't changed.

Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, and your habits become your character.

I can show you a few guys your same height who are half as good looking and less fortunate that do well. Hell before I had any money - I was stocky with few clothes and I will still sneaking a few women a month into my parents place.

What a woman is attracted to more than all of those things you stated is a man with a strong mindset. A woman believes about you what you believe about yourself. If you like it they love it. Its all about the energy we give off. I got women because I felt like I deserved to.. You have to recondition your thoughts. And this isn't something that can happen over night. But the months of consistency (just like physical exercise) will pay off.

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What i like is that in a lot of stuff you are or have made an effort to improve(for example you lost weight and lifts etc...), though it comes across negative, the honest answer is that as long as you seek improvement and not get drawn into self pitty you will be ok, most of the things you mentioned can be improved with effort. As long as you are getting better and putting the effort is what counts. With women you will have to put more numbers luckily you are 22, so your demographic is college women, who are broke themself and not much into money generally, but you will have less room for error in your seductions and you will have to put more effort.

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Hey bro i have a small dick too.... put her legs up all the way back if you can. youll hit something. if not put her legs up and cross them. youll hit the g spot and she'll love you for it. put a pillow under her lower back. that rises her self for you to hit it harder on edge of bed lift her up with her legs up[works like a charm]. I'm fat, i look goofy but im working on loosing weight. if a girl dont want me because im over weight fuck her. its her lose. i haven't tried to open yet. im working on believing myself. baby steps

no respect man. stop bitching about how shitty everything and think about what you do have going for you.

Lol you are funny man
I am the same height as you maybe 5 5 instead of 5 4
similar weight but it fluctuates because i lift weights but I can guarantee you i look bigger because of how i dress and because i workout consistently.
I go out and make friends even though im introverted (friends don't really matter much for girls)
My voice is higher than the usual male's but i try to speak louder and i eat foods to increase testosterone to deepen my voice
"I have club feet, an auto immune muscle disease (I'm healed tho), my sleep pattern is off, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, acid reflux, irritable bowel syndrome." every one of these diseases are not bad except for maybe club feet. The rest are usually psychological and can be solved with a good mindset. These are all side effects of being nervous and having bad inner game.
My T level was also very low before I started lifting weights and it usually is really low with every american male nowadays.
You will not need to fight anyone in real life if you can use ur words to avoid it. Sometimes its better to look like a pussy and continue living rather than fighting and ending up dead.
Why the fuck does penis size even matter to you. A virgin who has never been with anyone called you small doesn't matter. Your penis was the first penis she had fucked. Tell her she watches too much porn. These are all similar problems that people here had to face.

Genetics do matter but hardwork will take you places where genetics can't. Your friend probably worked his ass off to start a business and he probably got lucky with the girl unless he's a pua or a natural.