Right im new so ill give some background info... im 19... from glasgow.. i go out about 2-3 nights a week (always to clubs) girls tell me i can dance really well for a guy...

and once im dancing with a girl i pretty much always kiss / get a number..

my main problem is the opener... once im past this then im usually home free

if i see a girl who's name i know but she wont know me then i usually use "how about we play a game, if i guess your name you get to buy me a drink" .... works around 50% of the time

however usually after some EC and a little exchange of a smile im all for going over but i just cant think of what to say first and what to talk about :/

hmm i dunno, dont they think its a little fishy how u guess their names correctly?

i do something similar though, where i say if i can guess where a girl is from (ethnicity) then she has to buy me a drink. if i guess wrong, then i have to get her a drink. either way, you end up at the bar together.

Man I have always found that a wink and a smile to be the best. Once they smile back you know almost any opener will work. I find its the best way to weed out woman with major b!tch shields. That way you waist less time breaking b!tch shields. more time collecting numbers. My two cents