Okay. So I am pretty new to this site and I kind of want to go out and try some day game, but I am worried that the day game routine is different for men and women. So I kind of want to to know if any female PUA have any tricks up their sleeves, or any male advice on how they would like to be approached or how to be more successful. Thanks.
-Lindsay

I would say approaching stays the same for both sexes. Use situational or opinion openers. I like confident women and ones who go for what they want so the direct opener gets my attention right away. But i know my ioi's & body language so if the girl was to open with situational or opinion, i can lead the convo from there. All women really have to do is open. If they guy is confident/alpha enough he should know what to do after being opened

Make a sandwich - Hand it to target.

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Hey another PUA girl:)

I use quite similar game with both genders, I usually do some looks to create curiosity, or just go there and use some openers. Usually i start with nonverbal communication. Like look at the person so that he/she is asking himself why did i look him/her like that, so it is easily to open. Then i tell them some interesting facts - at girls, or use my cold reading so they have my attention, usually later they ask me for a contact not other way around..
With guys i sometimes play that I am a bit naive, I am always confident and show them I am good catch and that I am wanted.. works every time. I also use a lot of kino, nonsexual or hodden sexual. i also mention some things in which their brain connects it with sexual stuff with me included.

I hope that helps.

Good luck

Honestly, I actually respect a ballsy woman. I've had one woman lasso me with an imaginary rope in the middle of the street. I couldn't help but laugh and smile at the situation. I was impressed... Then I realised she was from Oxfam.

As a guy it's a huge shock when a woman approaches us. I've had it happen a few times without me inviting them to open on me and i'm almost always caught off guard. It's not a pleasant feeling but you stay around. I would say however you approach someone on the street you've simply got to focus on making them as comfortable as possible after the approach. Don't give it much thought to be honest. If it's an opinion opener or observational opener(Much preferred) you can't go wrong with it in day game. I have approached a group of tourists looking at a map and asked where they wanted to go. They told me what they were looking for and I offered to take them there. While talking you just shoot the shit("Where are you from? Why are you here? What do you think? Do you like the people?" blah blah) then you can simply get their number by saying "You're pretty cool, give me your number and we'll meet up sometime." Then just leave and send them a text at around 9pm.

Thanks everyone. I guess it might be the same for both genders. If anyone else has anymore input on day and eventually night game keep the posts coming. I am hoping to try some this weekend. Maybe try the newbie mission to allow me to approach people better with more confidence.

I got this principle - you have to pick up a man in a way that he thinks he is picking you up.

And as someone has advised me here earlier, read the book "Get the guy" by Matt Hussey. Or you can watch videos on youtube. They are very basic, but was very helpful for me as I didn't even realize previously how important, simple and efficient is eye contact and a smile at the right time. You can also find more advices.

To my mind, it's not actually the same for the both genders.

Good luck!

Apart from really specific situations (mixed sets) I can't see why women would need to game men. I don't mean that to sound sexist, just can't imagine any guy having a problem with a woman coming up and saying it straight.

"Hi, I'm x, if you're single would you like to go out sometime?"

If it's just a group of guys they're probably going to shut up the second you start talking anyway, so all the winning the approval of the set stuff goes out the window. Maybe naivety on my part but I also don't think many guys are going to be anything other than kind if they have to turn you down (maybe with someone else or whatever).

Just my view. I'd honestly love it if women approached.

If they are fat.

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If the woman is fat the guy's response is still either going to be a yes, or a polite decline, in which case you lose nothing, if he is insulting when he says no then she has had a lucky escape.

Obviously, sexual attraction on both sides is a must.

But when it comes to actually attracting 'picking up' another person, set your goals.

ONS? - "Hi, i'm wasted but this condom in my pocket doesn't have to be."

Relationship?

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This is the best thing I've seen today.

Seriously though, Lindsay -- this has to be WAY easier for girls. Like... I'm a flirt. A huge flirt. I flirt with senior citizens just for something to do (and I'm even seeing someone currently)... It's just fun. If a girl approached me and was attractive and looked 'dateable' she'd probably have my attention as long as she could string together a sentence properly.

Also, show some tit. That would get you results.

I better get to the kitchen then.
Of course, when in doubt put out the tits.

I dont understand why a woman would ever need to learn pick up. I disagree that it's the same for both sexes.
women have it much easier. just come up to us and say "i want to have sex with you" and I guarantee you 90% of guys won't have a bullshit excuse like "I have a girlfriend" or "oh, I have to be somewhere"

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I would recommend, opening a guy indirectly and it's a great way to gauge how receptive they are to you.