Need some help!

I have noticed that the girl i have been dating for six months has the tendencies to flirt with my friends, she will joke around and repeatedly make contact with them. Almost as a form of kino escalation. She keeps leaning on my mate Charlie who she has gone to meet today and she has gone round my mates house alone to go see him more than once. I know she wouldnt cheat or anything but the way she talks so fondly of him is fucking annoying. I have talked to her about this and have shown alpha to her by being assertive in telling her its disloyal and disrespectful. She carried on a couple weeks later and now she has gone to meet charlie in town because i am unable to see her. She doesnt know that i know that she is seeing him today and she hasnt contacted me since. I dont know what i should do next? at the moment im not texting her while shes out as a way to make her think about it but are there any suggestions?

respect

J

Be ready to walk away, at any time for any reason. If she continues to act up, be ready to walk. If you stay you will lose your own self respect!

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how old is she?

Charlie seems like he may be a bit of a cunt himself.

Eyes open. What you think is happening is probably what's really happening. Go with your gut.

Thanks lads! I met up with some other girl mates and posted it online so she saw, i guess two can play that game. In retrospect; charlie is a very funny charactor who may not appear to be good looking, however he is great with girls. I havent had much contact with molly today either, just waiting for her to text me so it shows I have other ways of having fun. Will keep you all posted if you wish?

I agree, just simply walk away, maintain your own self-respect, and perhaps learn a thing or two from it.

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So you went all alpha on her did you. And look how it's fucking worked out ... NOT.

This ^

It's my opinion that if I really love this girl then I should start paying attention to her needs, doing nice things WITH her. A change of heart doesn't mean I have to have a heart to heart with her. I ignored some of these queues from a girl I thought would not cheat, and then she did. In retrospect I should have cared more than I acted like I did.

The way this sounds like it's heading, she's going to fuck your mate and you're gonna be butthurt. So keep acting like you don't care and try to make her jealous, you're gonna feel like shit when it happens. At least if you try harder with her and she pulls that shit it's on her, not you. You walk away in good standing and character. I know plenty of friends whose girlfriends hangout with their mates, these girls are loyal and their friends are mutual. Also if Charlie bangs her fuck that cunt. Either kick him in the nuts or find new friends.

My opinion, take it or leave it.

P.S. You could kick the shit out of Charlie and tell her you don't tolerate that shit,

LAY DOWN THE LAW

YOU ARE THE LAW BRINGER

I'd leave charlie out of it entirely. If you are worried or jealous, it's your fuck'n problem. This girl and charlie are both adults that can do whatever they want. If whatever that is isn't up the the OP's liking, then in this case the girl isn't scared of losing him; either because he isn't valued or she knows he'll just take it. If she knows you won't take it, and fucks Charlie anyway, then problem solved. NEXT. Being alpha is about drawing woman to you, not controlling and inhibiting them. Mindset adjustment needed.

It sounds like you're being had.

I agree with mastermind9000.

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mastermind is spot on. Nothing to add.