| Day 8,814: Anchoring refrence points to her past stories: everybody just wants to have fun and enjoy each others company. but this is serious. this is the work of your life, your partner in life. Nobody should have an edge on you in Any sector. And its not all fun in the moment. you have to remember who she is, what shes been through, why shes done what shes done, important details she told you: Your brain has to be a microchip and parrot all of these details back to her at a later date. This a) shows high survival and replication value as it demonstrates you are intelligent and can recall past events with reliable accuracy and b) demonstrates you care about her and remember important parts about her. you are the biggest fan on earth of her story, you know it inside and out, its your favourite book to read or movie to play in your minds eye... Dropping anchors to important details to her recalls the emotion peak that was experienced at the time of the initial anchor reference's birth. peak high experience: recall a peak high anchor drop months later. been through a massive struggle: drop the anchor point to recall your or her own value when they are seem to be getting bored. use anchor refrence points to keep value (hers or yours) presidented rock solid in the other partys mind. that way you secure their interest and attention. which leads to investment sexually or otherwise, gives you room to ask more of them. The person with the more value can be more demanding so heres an absolutely free way to gain some ground in your position for asking for any request. this must be a DAILY HABBIT. you know the saying Pay Attention.. well instead of paying for chocolate and flowers Pay them with Attention. they'll like you just as much if not MORE. The more diverse and varied and spaced over time your anchor references are the more impact they'll generate and the more shell appreciate and value you.
Day 8,813: Understand and practice Storytelling because it goes hand in hand with Humour. A great joke that opens a door of opportunity to laugh and be silly is preceded by a tall tale (or a story). Laughter (or humour) *they are two different things: laughter is the vocalazition of the hahahaha's where Humour is identifying or creating WHY and WHAT that is funny* If your anything like me and youve seen the way I laugh in 5 minutes of laughter, I use humour and laughter to create sillyness and idiocracy people are majorly attracted to and more importantly identify with. to be good with humour you have to feel the tension in the air and your timing has to be incredible. you have to unfold your stories, make up something funny, and wait for that hairline fracture moment in time when the tension is perfect and pull the trigger on your laugh and you will be LOVED. its always a gamble every single time you pull any trigger, when you create tension, sexually, or humorously, identify the opportunities to go beyond and exaggerate even further and blossom a story into a beautiful moment, story, or even history. Just smile. Every Great Joke is second in command to The Great Story that spawned it.
Day 8,812: Be a Compliment Shark!! A shark in the business world is someone who bowls over all competition to get what they're after, emotionally, logically and sometimes in movies physically. To me that means they take massive action. One of the best things that is undercapitalized in people is their own human potential. Thats why people are scared to try new things, they don't have the foundation of confidence. they are lacking in approval 365 days of the year, most years. How could someone ever have the strength of character to attempt being an astronaut or becoming a big rockstar or a teacher or whatever their heart desires if they come from the ground of low self esteem?? More importantly, and more noticeable day to day, are the number of times you are pleased by others and you say SQUAT... what kind of human being are you to rob them of their success by holding it within. So I need to really notice what pleases me (as it ties into punishment and reward theory) and Pour out my compliments like jizz over my wifes lips. And the same goes for anybody on this planet I experience. If I see you do good- youve got a compliment headed your way. This is a Golden Daily Discipline that has to be reset on the hour. I dont want to freeze people, I want to set their Heart and soul on Fire. Nobody raises people up more than I do!! Haters gift you with the endurance of hate and make your soul hard like diamond: they prepare you for anything. Lovers inspire your soul with vision. I believe both love and hate are necessary in life. you need strength AND vision to succeed. You need to learn to vocalize your thought process when you appreciate, like, and find pleasure and happiness in things. Even the small things, because those are the seeds thrown plenty and many that grow into beautiful trees.
edit Day 8,840: Do you want to kiss and forget? (if yes kiss and keep walking)(if no- Bite a hole in your panties!)-{when your walking down the street and want to makeout but dont really want to stop, its like building on move 9,939 Compliment walk by. you acknowledge her beauty and escalate to the kiss. you could tag team with move 8,859 to gain isolation afterwards. If the interaction is going strong you could also say "I want to make out with you all night" You could also increase you odds of getting through this line with success by adding "oh please please please please please" before your ask if she wants to kiss and forget on the cold approach. if no, "How Can You Live Like That??? I play kiss and forget all the time, it was my favourite game!"
Day 8,811: "I like your puss" (what your actually saying on this one is "I like your purse")
Day 8,810: "Smells Like teenager" (good line to drop whenever someones wearing perfume or cologne. young is sexy.
Day 8,809: "mmm how about showing me some ballet" (this is a good one to drop when your sitting on a couch and she is getting naked for you. or your in a position where she could do some pornstar dancing and shake her funbags for you).
Day 8,808: "That bitch better come talk to me, I just spent six grand on this plane ticket" (this is a attention demanding line you can use at any event. if you notice each other and shes not returning to you or approaching you, this is a pull strategy line you can use to compel her to come over and open YOU. if you already noticed each other or were talking at some point, anyone with a healthy values compass will take the hint.)
Day 8,807: "Ok sissy. Whatever you have to do to save your pride". (this is a line when you are not getting compliance. you are doing your job and reading her signs to the best of your ability and shes feeding you positive signals yet she will not allow your escalation physically, or to continue the party somewhere else, or for any other reason. this is a line that puts the ball back in her court).
Day 8,806: "Whatever happens here tonight, just remember im here with you, and your here with me". (this is a line you want to drop before going into a sex club or some kind of situation where you will be switching partners. the underlying message in this one is take care of each other. if either of you looks uncomfortable just come over tap on the shoulder and well get some air. no questions asked. Small setups like this can save you a world of headache later when your in a situation you do not want to be in).
Day 8,805: Alpha is bringing the food in large ammounts. When food is the name of the game, to me and watching the people i was raised up by, alpha males bring a feast. more than they could possibly eat. and what they dont eat they leave so you have food for like 2-3 days after. Its a neat way to stay top of mind and your helping other people out in a big way as well. bring a feast whenever food gatherings are going on.
Day 8,804: I never loose. this is really a tie in with 8,849. When you believe you can do anything and you throw yourself at your ideas with all your might and you meet resistance or temporary failure, never accept it as a defeat. in rough terms many a time i've hit a wall during progression of a want. But if you attempt 5,000 times to achieve a goal your more than likely to achieve it in full completion. Along the path however you will meet many setbacks and situations that others would read as "failures". The correct belief is to believe in any scenario other than success you have gained something of equal or greater value in terms of lesson learned. where almost everyone quits is when they hear NO to their ideas or wants. Thats when the work BEGINS. You are learning from trial and error and now your one piece of the puzzle more than what you were before. Try again. and again. and again into infinity until you have all the facts researched and assembled to get exactly what you desire. most people arn't down with work. but for me, I crave the mental challenge and enjoy solving puzzles so Im lovin it. and I hope you can learn to as well.
Day 8,803: You have to be Super Humble
Vanity is a toxin to building sincere bridges of friendship. Let others take the #1 spot top position and you will always be learning in life. Raise others up, and make them feel like rockstars, rather than sound off your own accomplishments, and you will always be wanted.
Day 9,880:
Day 8,802: Keeping your cool and Self Perseverance
instrumental: 2pac- heavy in the game
video notes: Keeping your cool. you cant let anger, sadness, happiness, joy, frustration, or irritation overwhelm you. You must absorb all. You must learn to stay LEVEL in your emotion when dealing with others. In all of your relationships, you have to accept you are going to not get what you want and need some of the time and simply accept that and put others before you. In doing so you simply have to trust and fall backwards that they are sure and they are putting your trust to good use and not abusing it. You MUST be willing to compromise because other peoples happiness is more important to your own in respect to the vitality of your relationships.
Self perseverance: Dreams never change: you are "sold" out of them by overwhelming pessimism and negativity. Believe in yourself. Believe your ideas are always right, trust your instruments are accurate and your recall of the situation was accurate (because you were paying attention). Dont let your mind warp to opposition. when you hear no or pessimism, its just in the now and from sour, chosen defeated people. you CAN turn that around if you believe you can find a way you will. Rigorously Demand it from your mind. Yet in that light you must always be coachable. those who cannot take direction will be denied further advancement on the boardwalk of life and have effort invested into knocking them back. Before you take massive action make sure you have the alphabet of and raw facts. Don't take massive action on opinion alone, know the exact facts. And before you take ANY action you should think of 12 other ways to achieve your same goal, that way you stay flexible to new information. The first action plan is often not the best most efficient way to close your case. all of life is a courtroom and everything is negotiable.
Day 8,801: "I love your shoes!" This is a great line. just shout it out in a crowded space. everybody with a healthy self esteem has got an ego. Just by hearing this line, even if it wasnt directed to you, makes you feel good.
Day 8,801: Smooth Operating
Instrumental: Birdman, Lil Wayne: Know what im Doing.
Video notes: you never need to shout or raise your voice. this is a symptom and symbolizes lack of skill in creating and presenting and knowing solutions that are aggreable to both sides and satisfy the other partys OBVIOUS standpoint "its all about me, its ONLY about me". When you do this, you make happy happy reptiles. Accept all resistance as an opening for opportunity. Be a YES man, Yes to education, Yes to doing your homework, Yes to creating and presenting solutions on the drop of a hat. HAVE ENOUGH PIECES IN YOU PUZZLE TO GO IN ANY DIRECTION YOU WANT WITH ANYTHING.
Day 8,800: "I know a guy who knows everything there is to know about this" (good networking line)
Day 8,799: "want a suck?" Commanding suggestion when a girl watches you shower or when you whip your cock out.
Day 8,798: "A faithful friend is a source of strength; whoever finds one has found a treasure"
Day 8,797: A friend is a gift you give yourself
Day 8,796: "waiting for a worthy cock to suck?" (opener)
Day 8,795: All about group sex
i would really like to go to a hot yoga class and invite 3 of the girls back to rent a hotel.
my ultimate result is to remove jealousy - and to promote safe sex and locking it down on the first of the month every month.. With the same group.
if i can verbalize it right on the nerve and put them in my car with something so sweet they just have to see, once theyre isolated ill put my offer down 100% the truth: "look i want to explore all your bodies and you with me and hers and hers and try it out.. Im going back to mine, whose strong enough to say yes. And im wearing different condoms for each of you, so what do you say?"
im open minded and i think thats what brought us here in this room in the first place. So can it be done?
the message I think is most important is that heres an opportunity, its safe, and its between us and us alone.
if she says no ill apolagise sincerely, didn't mean to sound creepy and ask her to just forget about it and not let it take her smile away.
if they say yes: ok lets go for it.
and we go home talk all night on a big bottle of 40% and make love as the sun rises
Day 8,794: Correct Posture
Day: 8,973: Anything but a straight answer is flirting. Getting things done is about getting to the point in one second. However when its play time, conversing can be seen as a dance. Girls love mysteries. When you give girls the merry go round and keep the truth veiled in mystery this can be interpreted as flirting without flirting. not giving girls the answer to their question keeps the cat reaching for the string. calibration with all things is critical.
Day: 8,972: How to touch a girls ass: "im very hyper. im actually suprised there has not been a single butt swAp today.. usually i swAp girls asses all the time.. You should try it..theres a lot of different kinds of ass..here touch mine tell me what you think..can I touch yours? just a swipe? (reach in low and grab her ass and reach inside so you grind that pussy on the fly as well).. Touching!!"
Day 8,971: Counter Point Memory Check: Whenever you are bantering back and fourth with anyone or group and they serve you with a neg or a suggestive idea that penetrates your integrity in some form. before you hit the ball back into their court take a mental note of what their comment was so that after you have finnished saying what you wanted to say you still remember what it was that caused you to unleash your tongue. You should be able to mentally travel back and fourth in your mind through the past interaction and recall the entire exchange and 100% of the information being discussed. When you do this, you remember what their point was and can finnish it by returning to the point of debate and hammering it again.
Day 8,970: Everything relates to your cock. This is a cheeky routine. basically you want to tie everything back into your huge cock. whatever the conversation, just mention your huge cock somehow in the conversation and you build on the accepted belief your hung like a racehorse. Going somewhere? "Great! I just hope my huge cock doesn't get in the way while we do this." You have nothing to be ashamed of. you have to only be ashamed of society's fear of sex.
Day 8,969: "Im Dirty" (look them right in the eye and drop this line and right away they know your good in bed with no inhibitions.)
Day 8,968: Wow, its all part of the package! youll make some man very happy one day. (this is a good line if someone really has their act together, the looks, the ambition, the success track record. its just a pat on the back with this line)
Day 8,967: Fairy Tales DO come true! Still Single!!!! Ill be calling you later! (every girl is raised a disney princess. when you make them feel like that childhood disney princess you bring chivalry back and become their knight in shining armour. its a shame so many people dont know how to attract women because theres so many jaded people out there that it really is a jungle out there when it comes to figuring people out. thats why I do what I do).
Day 8,966: "What have you got going on?" (this is a far better door of conversation to open than "whats up" because it takes you further into peoples lives and lets them talk about the subject they love best. themselves.)
Day 8,965: "boy" (this is one loaded word that starts heated drama in one second).
Day 8,964: Getting what you need out of life
Instrumental:Biggie smalls: Gimmie the loot
Video Notes: At the end of the day, thinking can go either way. Fear and Force are the two ways to overcome a smooth operator or anyone who wont understand you. At the final negotiating stage in any deal, "big deal" or not, you need to ram your point home and convince the other party you need it more than they do. and you do this with the same calculated logic you used since the beginning of the deal to get this far, Its peoples life work to deny you, so its your duty and obligation to snap them out of their way of thinking and into yours. before you hit em with the book, look ahead and answer whats the worst case scenario? do you have backdoor solutions? and if the answer is yes and there will be no serious loss, you want to slam them harder than your girlfriend.
the days of an honest days work for an honest days pay are over. your always being played and made to think your winning, Professional negotiators take your argument and twist it up like a pretzel. such is this life. Just look at each other as equals and figure out a solution your both happy with. use logic to reach an agreement. what are both parties goals and the significance of the goals. Some people just hoard money, so you need to demand what your work is worth.
Professional negotiators eat one meal a day.
Day 8,963: Build the relationship in one way Every Day
Day: 8,962 Free your mind, Attention=Validation
Instrumental: This Dj: Warren G
Video Notes: You have to let it all go: Fear, Doubt, Disbelief. Free your mind. Pay negativity no mind, Live in the moment, not the future of what could be, because its a multiverse. You have no way to peg what is going to happen out of infinite possibilities. Just enjoy each moment in the now as it happens. you have to stick to the raw foundations of game at all times: you have to be willing to loose, you have to be willing to humiliate yourself. Face that if a woman wanted to do that to you she could easily do so and simply TRUST YOURSELF that everything is going to be ok. you MUST be willing to let the people you love most out of your space. clinginess is a sign of neediness and a tell of weakness. You want to be in between non-needy yet her feeling validation to the max. You have to be down to play the game of other people.
Attention=Validation. The best gift you could ever give a women is your undivided attention. It makes women feel validated like you care about them. That their not just a piece of meat or your just in it for the status she adds to you. Its easy to let the important details slide when your living together. Women always want to be pursued and flirted with. You have to snap back into the frame that you just met and its your first date together mindset every day. Your undivided attention is the best way to build the feelings of security and intimacy into what a woman needs which then returns to you. Attention is how women affirm they are beautiful inside and out, they need to be noticed. a guy giving a woman undivided attention is same the catalyst in the brain for women as when men see with their eyes a 32-24-36 hanging around. (See day 9,999 Eye Contact).
Day:8,961 "So long" (this is the alternative saying to 8,858 and when you part ways)
Day:8,960: How to never miss a high five: simply look at the other persons elbow as you clap their hand and Youll make contact every time.
Day 8,961 "The Process"
Instrumental: Ice T Original Gangster
Video notes: Simply be weary of everything you say when entering the process of another professional. They are extracting information to put together their deal or presentation, so you want to speak positively and be extra cautious to be doing so. Basically reset your attention and focus when you enter the building of another service based professional.
Day 8,960: "Looser" (a good old fashioned comeback)
Day 8,959: 100%
Instrumental: Bone Thugs and Harmony Look into my eyes
Video notes: Quality isnt something that can be argued into an article or promised into it. It must be put there. If it isn't put there, the finest sales talk in the world wont act as a substitute.
"Commit to your own personal style and do not worry about anyone elses strengths or style, you can become as great as you want to be."
Day 8,958: Do-it-yourself-flowers. Roses are red, but dandelions are yellow and mistletoe is white. If you see a patch of flowers go ahead and bring home a boquet. But other peoples gardens are other peoples gardens, have more class than that.
Day 8,957: Cafe Romance
Day 8,956: "Do you want me to rub you off one?" (this is a geat line whenever a girl looks stressed. basically its the sweetest line ever.. its saying "do you want an orgasm" and with sincerity you could remove the learned guilt from instant sex. you could say this in bed, at the gym, at a party, or grocery shopping, or every 30 minutes... who dosent like orgasms? this is one you really wont know if it works until you try it a few times. You cant get mad at or look down on for peddling sex, why would you? your offering a pleasurable experience. All things considered though there are a lot of over evangalistic people out there who are wierd about sex. So just stay strong, not everyones a taker.)
Day 8,955: "You can call me anything you like as long as its not dinner" (this is a good line that brings back being humble. theres always a bigger fish in the ocean. if you wanna play with big boys and toys you have to pay hommage. your gonna have to absorb some pokes. shrug it off and just remember its all good and affirm your helping others or you have educational value in some way shape or form.)
Day 8,954: "how many jobs do you have?" (this is a good one, if they ask now? or of all time? ask for of all time... people have had some great jobs, this is a good line to learn about career opportunities.)
Day 8,953 Cafe romance 2.
Instrumental: James Brown Pappa dont take no mess
Push your cutlery off the table accidentally and when you bend down to pick it up look right up that skirt across the way. If shes game shell play and spread her legs and give you the answer to guess her panties colour. After just simply walk over hand her your card and say "call me" hopefully shell get your subcommunication you mean call me within the hour and ill set up a good fuck for you. (Also applicable for the wingman game). (Also if they connect with you store that special friend away so you can have fly guys and dope girls on tap when everybodys in from out of town) {Credit Porcupine}
Day 8,952 "Don't stop learning while your earning"
Day 8,951: The most important relationship a man (or anyone) has in their life is the relationship with their self. You can start where you are any time you like, its never too late to change. Before you can attract other people to you, you have to attract you to you first. If you look in the mirror and see your #1 hero in the whole world, others will likely like that too. You have good taste after all, right? Like attracts like. If your not who you like now all you need to do is start exercising your discipline muscles. If you dont change you have nobody to blame for your lousy situations in life than yourself. You must be disciplined in this world and make the right choices. Underneath anyones pleasurable company is countless hours of development focus and making the right decisions. If youve made bad decisions lately or always, start making the right ones. The right thing to do is never the easy thing to do. Make decisions that make you Like yourself. Help to anything is 20 minutes of concentration and a google search away, and patience.
Day: 8,949: "Top of mind Principle" and management tips
instrumental: Puff Daddy,Biggie Smalls its all about the benjamins
Day: 8,948: "lets go in business together" (this is a open ended suggestive question spoken as a statement that could go anywhere.. if they say fuck yeah then all you have to do is get the ideas flowing and you have a business partner for a venture). (you should tell them a) its legal b) over a decade you could be winning the lottery c) its a completely new revenue stream with hundreds of talented individuals with knowledge in tax laws, investing, and the know-how to make money work for you).
Day 8,947: If mentality
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;
If you can dream---and not make dreams your master;
If you can think---and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same:.
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build'em up with worn-out tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings,
And never breathe a word about your loss:
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings---nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much:
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And---which is more---you'll be a Man, my son!
Rudyard Kipling
Day 8,946: Dont even Start With me. You will not win. (A great line.)
Day 8,945: A Champions Mindset
Champions know they always gain something on their investment.
Day 8,944 Breaks not Break-ups
Instrumental: 213 Im Fly
Video notes: when you face a break veto, find some way to come out on top. you have to believe you are in the right. Do you want one job for all eternity, or hundreds of opportunities to grow and develop. of course you want lots of jobs, you are the best. So dont contract your ways just because life is good. you should always be actively meeting other women. a true relationship should be something both partners choose daily. there are plenty of other people in the world worthy of your love an attention. if you deal with dealbreaking behaviour you lose. plain and simple, both ways
I believe a great relationship is where neither party needs to tell each other what to do, they just show up and like each others ways, and steer the relationship when required. The best way when a woman is trying to limmit you, is to simply walk away. exit or (n.e.x.t.). the minute someone starts telling you what to do, yellow alert.
true players outlast clashes in relationships. even though you may be sour in the now, always take the other person back...because you will win again. you cant expect perfection from everybody. if you truly love something you must be willing to let it walk away. you always..always...always have to be ready and willing to walk away from love if its damaging your integrity as a human being. nobody should ever have to put up with degradation to their character in relationships. put your emotions to bed.. you are bigger than anybody and any problem you have, so lead by example and do whats right, forgive and forget, continue to get her bed wet, and punish her like boba fett if shes still upset.
simply just walk out the room when women start acting up, or ask them to leave. nip the problem in the bud. this way they are nexted so smoothly they're not sure they're broken up or whats happening so they'll miss you and call you.. and when she smartens up, and misses you shell be happy and willing to sexually please you. its all about sex, nothing else should matter.
Day 8,943: "Every step that I take, brings me closer to the visions I make."
Day 8,942: "you make me happy, you make me happy" (this is a great message to keep repeating during conversation to let the full meaning sink in over time, this is a great way to put doubt to rest that you accept and are liking of someone else).
Day 8,941: The Few Who Do: Conversation=Praise
Instrumental: Ghetto Boys Damn it feels good to be a gangster
Video Notes: Its easy to be negative. people say its our nature.. but the real higher stat of consciousness is when you can be free of problems and simply appreciate and build people up nonstop. when they're with you, they REALLY LIKE being with you...because you make them feel good. Its a negative world.. so by NOT being negative your open to taking hits from your surroundings.. but when its all said and done.. at the end of the day.. even if you have to take a handful of disses for not being aggressively negative... by simply raising people up constantly (conversation=praise) people remember you WAY more. Now you are a Rare commodity people will seek out, because your specialty is making them glow, and they like beaming with pride they feel so good about themselves and their life. You become Valuable to them.
raise everything up. the environment, the person, the character, the clothing. stimulate positivity everywhere with all senses.
Just be dope to be around.
Can you spark up the flame?
Every idea or hope one is aware of is like a cinder or piece of coal, and if you rub and friction it enough in the head you can make the spark that lights the flame, where there is a fire burning bright inspired by that idea or hope _________________ Attraction is creating Satisfaction
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