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PostPosted: Sun May 25, 2014 5:53 pm 
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I feel so dependent on having a woman in my life! It's always been like this for me and I can't really be happy unless I'm in some kind of relationship. If I'm not that's all I dream about.

For the last few months I felt like I was progressing pretty well with this pickup thing. Dating different girls was just what I needed, but right now I have nothing lined up and it's messing with my humor. I went sarging with a couple of guys yesterday and I felt so useless. I somehow got a girl's number in the end, but I felt like I was really crashing and burning. I'm not surprised that she hasn't messaged me back. I cannot help but overanalyze every single thing I do when I talk to a girl I have even a marginal interest on. I know they must pick up on that even if only subconsciously and it's ruining my chances.

What can I do to be happy and energetic even when I have no women lined up?
How can I shift my focus from the goal (getting the girl) to the journey (doing the pickup)?

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I feel so dependent on having a woman in my life! It's always been like this for me and I can't really be happy unless I'm in some kind of relationship. If I'm not that's all I dream about.

For the last few months I felt like I was progressing pretty well with this pickup thing. Dating different girls was just what I needed, but right now I have nothing lined up and it's messing with my humor. I went sarging with a couple of guys yesterday and I felt so useless. I somehow got a girl's number in the end, but I felt like I was really crashing and burning. I'm not surprised that she hasn't messaged me back. I cannot help but overanalyze every single thing I do when I talk to a girl I have even a marginal interest on. I know they must pick up on that even if only subconsciously and it's ruining my chances.

What can I do to be happy and energetic even when I have no women lined up?
How can I shift my focus from the goal (getting the girl) to the journey (doing the pickup)?

Create a routine and stick to it... keep yourself accountable.

create a vision for something BIGGER than just picking up women. Make your vision so important that being rejected won't break you down. Learn that each rejection builds you up to bring you closer to success.

Have unwavering faith that things will come along eventually. the only way you can fail is if you quit. Don't quit brother!

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