Hey guys... the other day i picked up the number of a hot cougar HB7, who happens to be good family friend. Today was her birthday and i texted to wish her. She replied quiet late. I negged her by saying that 'you are replying quiet late' and instantly she apologized and told me that she was busy and all.. She replied me with' Thank you for all the hugs,chocolates, perfumes and cakes'. She wrote all these things even though when i had not even written them in my text ... she told me that she would be coming to the town in a couple of weeks and i want to set up the game till the time she arrives... so should i call her tomorrow or keep on texting her.... to check her response. In other words how should i create an interest and desire in her...

One more thing, she is also married but i know she is the cougar type. Now how am i supposed to seduce her on the phone and carry on playing the game till the time she arrives. What should be the game plan

Waiting for suggestions...

Avvocatto.

Call her and set up a date. Make it seem pretty innocuous like going to see a movie or something. Women know when you wanna fuck 'em, you just have to show them that you're going to be cool about the whole thing.

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So she's a good family friend and she's married? Danger, Will Robinson. Be careful with this one, lest your family blame you for trying to fuck up their marriage.

Anyway, it's hard to give any advice without knowing more about the interaction in which you picked up her number. What was the pretense for getting her number?

The one thing I can say is that, even though I prefer calling, if all your interaction has been text message so far, then you calling her would infer you taking it up a level, and she may not be ready for that - especially if she's married and you're a family friend.

I have experience with a married chick (not a family friend) and we mostly texted - easy to erase and not as hard to explain if you ring while the hubby's around.

All in all, I'd probably let it go. Maybe text her once she gets into town, or just beforehand, to see what her plans are, and maybe you'll set something up, but texting her in the meantime would come across as weird and needy, in my opinion.

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Yea thats what i had in mind....texting her constantly would potray being needy and thats the last thing i was intent on proving....so i should let this one go? What do u guys say..

Definitely go for it.

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek