I used to know this but I've been out of the game for too long. I can give a great massage but how do you turn it sexual? Kiss her shoulders/neck as you're doing it is my main idea here but I thought there used to be more to it. Any insight?

BTW...I thought there would be a post on this already but couldn't find one.

Massage is always sexual. Many types around from Swedish, shiatsu, Thai to slapping your cock on her face and whole body. Search on Google and Youtube and you'll be fine.

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The whole massage is sexual. Get a girl, doesn't even have to be a hot girl, just a girl, to massage your back with some lotion or oil and try to not pop a boner. I can't do it. As soon as a girl starts rubbing I get hard. And you better believe it's the same for a woman. If you are giving her a good massage, a good deep massage, she is getting wet. Tell her that her shirt is in your way if she wouldn't take it off at first, pull her pants down to massage her lower back and ass, run your hands along the sides of her torso right along her chest (don't act like this is you testing the limits, you have to act like this is just you knowing what you are doing giving a good massage.)

Kissing her neck would be a good start, shoulders too. If you really get her worked up there's nothing wrong with just lifting her flipping her over and eating that pussy. That's what I love to do. She's already worked up from the massage, you can give her a damn good orgasm right after that if you know what your doing.

google and youtube are your friends
videos will better explain anything written here

youtube this stuff.
or go on pornhum and watch the massage porn videos and replicate them

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the secret is actually do to mutual kino, have her touch in a sexual way and your in

My success rate with using massages is a 9 out of 10. Here's what I do.

I can't afford oils but I just use some lotion. I'd use oils if I could though.

Get her to take off her shirt (Key) Say "Take you shirt off" She'll normally take that off. Then tell her and the bra too. Some will give objections but I find now most don't. If she objects say "How am I gonna give you a massage if you keep that on?! Do you ever get a massage and keep your clothes on!?." They always take off their shirt. If she still insist on the bra. When you turn her over to massage her, just unsnap it and move it. They won't raise any real objections. But again, most just take off shirt and bra.

Giver her an actual good massage. Use your thumbs, get the area between her shoulders and neck. Rub near her spine and rub her lower back. Be firm. This is good because it relaxes her and the touch triggers her oxytocin which makes her comfortable and feel close to you.

After about 10 minutes kiss her in her hot spots. This is behind the neck and the lower back for women. While doing this also kiss the sides of her neck, her ears, and up and down her spine. Alternate between this and her hot spots. You can even use your tongue a little and lick up and down her spine.

This will excite her. Listen for her to start moaning and breathing hard. Pay close attention especially when you're at her lower back and you'll be able to smell her pussy getting wet. This is when you've got her.

Grip her by the pelvis with both hands (to make her feel small and feminine) and firmly flip her over (Just like a pancake that's done on one side!) This should have her facing up at you with bare breasts in a spot that mentally reminds her of sex in the missionary position. Giver her a big kiss on her lips for about 30 seconds. Move down to sucking her breasts and nipples. Kiss down her stomach to her pants. Tease her in that area by her pussy. She'll be going crazy by this point and want it. unfasten and yank off the pants with the with panties ALL AT ONCE.

If you get any resistance just start going down on her.

Already have the condom in your pocket and pull off your pants off and put on. (Your shoes should already be off). I keep my shirt on so she doesn't lose the state. Wrap your arms around her give her another big kiss and slide it in as you do this.

This works really well. Like I said 90 percent close rate for me. And for the one I went down on her and she came back the next day and did it anyway...

On a side note. I think massages are a very over looked part of the game. Dinner at your house (or just get her over), a glass of wine or so in her, and maybe even a little music and it's almost a done deal for me when I use the above method.

NEVER, NEVER, NEVER try sexual techniques that you see on porn sites. Girls are mainly romantic creatures so slapping your cock on her face is hardly going to fucking turn her on or make her feel good or special. The trouble with you guys is that if you are learning your moves from porn she is going to feel like a piece of meat that you bang for your own sexual gratification. Girls know where you've learnt all that shit from. They're not stupid. Why can't you jerks have an emotional connection with them first instead of forever desperately trying to get into their knickers. Christ almighty. Ohhhhh it's all about me and my fucking dick. Perform for me. Make me hard. I am so special. Bunch of fucking losers.

I can tell by your post that your obviously inexperienced.
not only do I slap my cock on girls faces and fuck them like I am a pornstar, but I also grab their hair and hold their head down while I fuck their face and make them gag and drool on my cock.

my biggest issue after I do this, is the girls wont leave me alone
apparently most guys dont have enough balls to fulfill these deep desires that women have
so they go crazy when such a nice respectful guy like myself touches on these natural instincts that they have to be dominated.

your loss if you think Im exaggerating in the slightest

btw : I use this method almost exactly and I also get 90% close rate
if a girl is in your bed getting a massage then she knows whats going on.
its usually only the guys that could be confused at this point

different terms with girls in relationships?