hey guys..in the last one month, i have being on dates with two chicks who were hurt by their boyfriends..both were cheated on...now i took them on dates and after i spend my fucking money is when they tell me they are back to their exs and that they had forgiven them..one of them went as far as to suggest i should continue dating her and that i am also a man just like her ex...how do you handle this stuff? i assume she wants the fact that i spend on her..the last date we had i blew 80 dollars...probably she just wants me for the good times while she just fucks this other guy who is a player and has a history of cheating....should i freeze her out and what should i do if she texts me?

Stop spending so much money/any money on them.

Invite them for drinks, and fuck them.

For one, stop confusing how much you spent with anything else. It is irrelevant. Two, did you sleep with these girls?

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i did not sleep with any..and yeah you guys are right i should stop blowing that amount of cash...but how should i play this chick? i did not text her today and she did not initiate....

what you need to do is start escalating on these girls. when girls are on the rebound they are easier to lay. fuck them better than their ex and they are yours. don't even worry about the money you already spent. consider it a lesson learn. she still wants to be around you because she likes you since you remind her of her boyfriend. she also knows that her boyfriend is full of shit and thats why your kept as a back up. escalate on her. if she rejects your escalation then call her out on it and say she is being a gold digger because she only wants you to spend money on her. if she says thats not true the tell her fine, you guys aren't spending anymore money when you go out. if you go out. tell her from now on it's only house dates. if she comes over, escalate. if she gives resistance to the house dates and no more money, then just let her know your moving on and cutting her off

what if she says " were you spending on me just because you want to fuck me?" and " i am not a whore" and how should i escalate? should i tell her to meet me near my house and then take her home or just invite her to my house? i wanted to invite her told her i want her to cook dinner with her and she declined and said no..she suggested she is afraid of being date raped.

update: she blocked me on facebook but not on the other social media..i am curious..why would she block me on only facebook and not the rest?

What did you say to her?

lol don't go on dates and if you don't don't spend money lol lol lol lol you made my day better.

after a date she started talking about contacting her ex who is a serial abuser..i called her out on that and i told it hurt me that she would think of that immediately after we had a date..she said i should be cool with him and that she likes both of us..i said okay and they went silent on her..i haven't talked to her for 3 days and today i noticed she blocked me on facebook but not on the other social networks..the chick is a stunner,has an ego bigger than her tits and thinks and always mentions the fact that she is hot..so probably me ignoring her messed up her ego..what should i do anyway? no contact or should i get in contact?

dude she hinted that she thinks you will date rape her and she blocked you. leave her alone.

dude she hinted that she thinks you will date rape her and she blocked you. leave her alone.[/quote]

it is not like i am forcing myself on her bro..infact she was the one pushing for the meet up so she is definately interested but she was in a relationship with an abuser..this guy cheated on her then when she dumped him,he begged her to take him back..she said she forgave him and i am sure he will cheat on her again and repeat the process.she wanted to basically date both of us and i thought that was an insult so i went in no contact mode..it has being four days since we last talked..she has not initiated any contact..was my no contact move wrong? should i text her?

Your mistake was spending money.

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you reacted a bit AFC to her comment...just drop her and move on. you don't need the drama baggage. she will always have walls up due to her past

update: she told me she is seeing three other guys...i was planning to see her on thursday and she clearly told me she is not down to fuck..i told her if she is seeing other guys there is no way i would allow myself to be an option..she got mad and blocked me on twitter...i told her to come over and she refused..was my approach wrong? that is my idea of gaming chicks with multiple guys come over or it is over...did i play it well?