Well, I was in a party last night, and there was a girl I wanted, I was with her, and applied some IOI, which I got good results, she wanted me, that was clear, we spent time together in the party and everything was cool, but then I kinda ruined it, I got drunk, and after that everything began to fall, I was acting like a stupid, saying crap all over the party, I want to know which technique I need to apply to fix this problem, she's acting very weird with me, like if I was an stranger, she's very quiet, doesn't talk a lot (compared with how she was acting before this mess) she's like uninterested in me.

How do I pick her up again? the image I had before towards her is ruined, need to get it back.

Thank you all!

-Huargo

Well, that wasn't a date, you just made a bad impression. It's an uphill battle that's not too difficult to fix with the right resources.

If she actually liked you and you got her number, call her up and set up a date. Mention that you got way too hammered (you can always give an excuse as to why, like that you were celebrating a promotion or something) (always DHV). She might lay into you with some scolding which you should take lightly.

If you didn't get her number but run into her just pretend that nothing happened. If it comes up in conversation just try to smooth it over with an excuse.

If you really screwed things up just let it go and move on.

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-Slavoj Zizek

Agree with CM on one thing especially, act like it never happened, just act casual and cool. Basically just forget about it and keep gaming, almost any other reaction is going to be a DLV. If she brings it up say "yea I got smashed I act like a teenager sometimes" and move on.

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First off, take a step back and stop engaging her, then just reengage as if nothing happened. If she brings it up just be like, "doh yea, well that was embarassing, next..."

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