I didn't really know where to put this topic. I hope I won't be punished. Also, english is not my native language, forgive me mistakes.

There is The Girl. She has a bf. So far this is fresh relationship. Less than month. I have read about BF Destroyers and it's good stuff I use, but. I know BF Destroyers are only in use when you want to sleep with girls. I don't really wanna do that. I mean, not only sleeping. I'd like to start amazing relationship with her, even if it cost me much time. I'm not seeing with other girls anyway and I don't think I'll meet another like Her soon. Don't get me wrong. I'm fully conscious I'm acting like oneitis guys but I'm not. When I will meet better girl this will be end of Her. Right now it's less likely because She is truly amazing and as I have never fought for any woman, I want fight for her. She is worth every second of my time and effort. I know I can give Her so much better time with me than the present bf, because this positive energy She gives me, make me wanna do things and have fun with her more than I ever experienced. Maybe I'm kinda in love, dunno.

First I have to be prepared.

From this what I found, I came to the conclusions, that in order to succeed, first I need to become Her friend, gather intel and then use it against him with BF Destroyers or other techniques. And by friend I mean friend who is in friendzone? Then use 'getting out of friendzone' techniques? I'm thinking also about how often should I see Her. Once a week? Two? I suppose I should wait too long for her reaction, I mean, inviting me somewhere, or sth, but like She said, when She is in relationship, She is for man, so it may not work out well with waiting for Her response. She is also a bit impulsive, everywhere in hurry, starting things and not finish, adhd type. What I'm also suspecting, Her feelings are more susceptible because of Her impulsiveness. I meet with Her like once a week maybe two.

What I'm interested in it is general (but any details will be great) pattern or strategy for winning Her heart.

Any help will be appreciated with high fives. As soon as I'll succeed I'm going to give you all The Highest, Multiuniversal and Multidimensional of High Fives of All Times.:] Or owe you a big strong Polish beer.

Oh I forgot. We had a moments. We were really close, and then She said She's 'not ready for relationship'. Apparently week later She was. But it was enough for me to develope some deeper feelings.

Wow, how original!

A girl who already has a boyfriend, and she's simply the most amazing person ever and you must have her because you're so much better than him and she just doesn't know it yet!

I've NEVER seen this type of post on the forum with brand new members.

I'm sorry that you don't think you've got a case of oneitis here, but you certainly do.

She's not the most wonderful person on the planet... She's one of 3.5 billion... and she's not perfect.

Plus she's already seeing someone.

My advice - and probably everyone else's... Find someone else. Girls are very common. Keep in contact with her on a friendly level and wait for the guy to leave the picture... In the meantime, though, you really need to look at other options. Not only will they help get your mind of this girl, but if she's even remotely interested in you, then any jealousy the other girls generate in her will work in your favor.

What I'm saying she is perfect so far.
That is advice. And that is why I won't stop meeting girls. But finding better one than She is, it's kind of unbelievable for me at this moment. However I see one plus here. While thinking about Her I won't give myself to other girl all at once because that is my problem with relation with women. I have always gave myself too quickly. Probably in Her case too. Or even especially.

General questions, but who am I to judge.

CharlesFinley is right again.

You started with your rockets pointed at the wall, not the sky.
Bullshit you don't!
You barley know her, how the fuck do you know THAT? She has less facial hair then the other girls in your town?

Follow Charlie's advice.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

My rocket was pointed at the sky since my last serious relationship over a year ago. And I met quite a few girls since then. One was better while other wasn't. I didn't regret losing contact with every one of them.
Actually you're right. This sentence should be: "I don't want to have only sex with Her."
Great listener, good observer thanks to lots of experience in friendzone in past. And now I was at my best in observing and listening. I had a lot of conversations with Her. Plus a lot common things.

Anyway, you wouldn't go into relationship with any woman, not believing it will something great and epic but believing it will be shitty relationship.

I wouldn't go into any sort of relationship without at least fucking her 1st.

All decisions can be made following that.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Already did that. Thats 'the moments'. As you can see, this entire topic shows my decision with some sort of plan, no matter how illogical it is from your perspective. Or immoral because I won't say it is good what I would like to do.

That helps clarify.

So now that you banged her, you fell in love with her?

P.S. I don't give a shit about your morals.

Just prepare yourself for the fact, she may have just been horny that day!

The moment you make a woman “your life” is the moment she’s preparing to walk out of yours.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

It started rather before banging.

In my opinion you seem awfully simplify everything to banging.

Falling in love with someone haven't happen for me for something about 6 years. I could say it is quite achievement make me fall in love with someone.
I'm not the type who is desperately looking for girlfriend. I'm just ok with myself and friends.
I'm also not type of guy who is falling in love with every girl he met. Like I said, there were plenty of them, I don't miss any of them.
Finally, I'm not type of guy who is bringing everything to banging. I like it of course. I don't mind doing it. Just now I don't find it so attractive to have sex with other women.

I know good brotip from my best friend, great guy he is: "if you think you are in love, fap, then think again". Well, apparently it's not my dick who is in charge this time because brotip doesn't work this time. Checked multiple times.

And other day too. She was my little perv.;] Her actions after and before spoke for itself. Lots of tenderness and attention. That not necessarily is the way of showing how horny she was.
I'm aware of that. She almost walked out. Now I'm trying make me part of her life, not her part of my life. All my efforts couldn't do shit if she wasn't think about me. One way or another.