Hey guys, so I met this girl great connection exchanged numbers, text her next day she said to call her, talked for a bit invited her over, had such a great night, amazing sex, she was so into me. Text her next day a little bit, said she'd love to go for drinks and left it at that. Text her the next weekend to meet up, she was busy one day I was busy the next so didn't happen. Soo I text her yesterday saying "was just thinking about when you were lying on top of me, it was hot" no reply, 5 hours later i text "no fun" been 24 hours now. Do I text again? I actually like this girl. Any advice much appreciated. Why do you think that text would get no response? Ps we had two 15 min phone conversations mid week - she was very keen

I certainly wouldn't follow up on your 'no fun' message.

I'd give it a couple days and then msg with something unrelated.

Or.... give her a call in a day or two.

Do you think the "no fun" message comes across pretty afc?

Meh, just a message... Don't worry too much about it.

In context, it wasn't horrible - in that she's ignoring a message that's supposed to be flirty... But the flipside of that is that if she was legitimately busy or something happened and she couldn't reply to you, you look a little needy.

Forget about it - pretend it didn't happen - and push forward.

Yeah.. Thanks, think I'll call in a few days if I haven't heard anything. Women are so strange sometimes, when we were together she was saying she has never felt so strongly about anyone so quickly before then doesn't even respond to a flirty text!

Would it be a bad idea to send "are you alive?" - to add she text me multiple times before when I didn't respond because I didn't have my phone on

Please don't do that.

Needy as fuck. Go about your life...

You know that feeling when you are really into a girl, then you fuck, and you just don't see her the same anymore? Well girls get this feeling too. Maybe this isn't your situation but it sounds like it.

So before I read reply I text "are you alive miss!" She text back straight away "haha yesss I'm alive" should I carry on a text convo or freeze out now?

Yeah understand that but she has been keenest following sex rather than before

Why are you asking us what you should do?

You're rejecting any advice you're getting.

I sent the message before the response on here

Anyway we had a short convo on another subject. Not initiating contact again

On a slightly different note but same topic - my game in person is improving a lot - I mean i can basically number close most girls, get dates, sex etc BUT i seem to care about every girl i sleep with start to like them then come across as needy, things go sour and feel shit - then meet someone else forget about the old girl start liking the new one and the cycle continues! btw iv only recently (last 8 months) got out of a 3 year relationship. Im quite full on - with girls im kind of all or nothing, so when in person this comes across in a good dominant way but when texting it comes across as needy and i f things up. Do you think these days you can simply not text AT ALL apart from logistics? maybe an initial text after number close. how do i not come across as needy via text?

I'll just throw out some of my opinions on texting in general. If you're texting ANY smiley faces and a lot of "LOLs" you're being a pussy. I hardly even use correct punctuation with girls when I text, I feel that the informality shows that you're not a loser and you have some responsibiliies on your plate.

My main piece of advice to you would be to find another girl to fuck so you have multiple options, that way you're not bored and you have more confidence in yourself.

Don't get the one-itis after the first time having sex. And try better to catch yourself when feeling one-itis.