Alright, so I'm back (no telling for how long though).

Anyway, alright so, the last time I was here, I was ready to divorce the wife and then I had a change of heart when I made it back to my hometown. Well, things are still pretty shitty. She wants to accuse me of cheating, so I might as well just do it (bad idea, I know). Ok, so it's easier said than done.

I feel like women just aren't interested in me enough to either start a conversation, make eye contact, continue a conversation, or even just pretend to be friendly. I know I could stand to hit the gym harder (lose 10 lbs and gain it back in muscle mass) and I don't think I'm totally unattractive (I actually think I'm pretty decent-looking), but I'm not trying to get wrapped up in my physical features as I believe this will only bring me down.

I would say that I'm pretty interesting, have loads of stories and jokes to tell. I can flip from subject to subject with no problem, but I just can't seem to get a woman to take the bait. It's weird, like even hired guns hardly seem amused to see me. Anyway, I realize I can be pretty picky with women, but that's partially because I grew up around pretty women (mom and sisters.... no, you can't talk to them). Never the less, I'm not asking for a drop-dead, gorgeous woman, just one chick that I wouldn't be embarrassed of bringing around in public (even though I won't because I'm married).

I've been around the world, and hardly see many women worth talking to (could this be a low testosterone thing?). I feel like the media deceives us, because even when I go to a bar (like, a real bar), there's usually a bunch of old geezers and no good-looking women.

Alright, so I've been drinking a little, therefore, I'm rambling. I hope you guys can find something in my post to allow you guys to give me some insight into what I'm doing wrong. If not, just ask me anything. I'm really trying to figure this out.... like a total AFC.

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all these things you expect from women. do you expect them from yourself? are you all or any of those things?
are you the equivalent of any of those things?

ur post shits me.
but your drunk, so il give you that.
being said though, your entitled to want such things.

so the point is, how do you get them?
you be them yourself, or the equivalent. you have just as much to offer a gorgeous interesting women as she has to offer you. consider how happy you would be, if you had that girl. then concider how happy she would be to have you.

thats reality. id start back at the gym. and if your gonna cheat, dont get married , dont have a family.
its fine to be selfish, infact its great. just be smart too and you will be a much happier person for it.

I appreciate your response, but regarding the marriage deal: not to be a dick, but I'm not really looking for marriage advice. I know my marriage sucks and maybe it was a bad idea to get married to begin with. People fall in love. However, love is also blind, so you don't always see the big red flags because you just want to believe this is real. I don't know anybody that goes into a marriage thinking they will eventually cheat.

Sorry, man. Not really trying to dog you out, especially since nobody even bothered to comment on this thread; so you're definitely cool in my book. haha

Anyway, in regards to the type of women I would hook up with and if I'm any of those things. I sort of believe I am. I always have thought pretty highly of myself, but it's never been easy for me to let the world know how awesome I believe I am since I tend to give off a humble vibe (believe it or not). This is part of why I got into pick-up, because I've always been the type to do pretty cool things, but you wouldn't know it unless I put it right in your face and that's never really been my style.

I suppose that's where I come up short. I have a hard time demonstrating higher value in such brief encounters, so in regards to your gym comment, I'm starting to believe that's going to have to be my hook: physical attributes. No more Mr. Personality.

Screw this, I'm going to change my screen name to Alpha Beta now.

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