Okay so I'm thinking that it has to be b/c due to logistics and my girl being on her period, I couldn't have sex with my girl for almost a week, maybe a little more (She gave me head and handjobs, that's it). Usually we have sex a few times in a week, and I last longer than a freaking minute. This time, BOOM, I came lol. I tried to keep thrusting and did for about a minute then it fell out cause I went limp. I tried to get it back up quick b/c she had to go to work, but I think that pressure of me needing to get it back up quick made it worse. So I had about 5-10 min to do so but couldn't.

But WTF! Why did I bust so quick? I think it's cause I haven't been inside her for a week/over a week?

And anyone know some tricks of getting it back up after you bust? If she gives me head then no matter what I'll get it back up, but sometimes she doesn't. (And I'm fresh as fuck. No hygene issue. I put baby powder on my dick/balls and deoderant before I do anything) So let's assume she doesn't give me head, what are some tips to get it back up myself? I know Hellhound said that I should masturbate with her vagina? I gotta try that.

As far as i'm aware it depends on the guy as to whether or not he can get a boner after he's bust his nut. The vast majority of men need roughly 30minutes. Very few can get it up after blowing their load and if they can it's generally only once more.

Personally I can get an erection straight after(Well, within five minutes) if i'm into the girl and she has a banging body. I can do this three times in a row and as far as I know there's not an awful lot you can do to change it. It's totally biological.

Anyway, if you're worried about not lasting too long there's nothing wrong there. It just happens sometimes. Better to happen later into the relationship than the first time you fuck her. I did learn that the best way to stop yourself from blowing it too early is to slow down and pretty much -- as funny as it may seem -- think of unsexy thoughts and focus on it. I used to think about a chair and focus on it's corners. Worked like a charm and I could hammer away for ages while doing it. Remember: Most of an orgasm has to do with your mind.

Word. I've gone 3 rounds with her tops, and wanted to go more but logistics didn't allow it. However, that time it was at night at her place... we had time... it was chill etc. This time I felt like i had pressure b/c she had work in a little, etc.

Def agree with you on slowing down.

Not the most useful alternative, but you could try masturbating right before you initiate sex with your gf, especially if you haven't done it in a while. Make sure to do it one or more hours before it happens.

I quit ever since I got a gf. Do not want to go back to that habbit lol.

Fuarrrk yes

There are different reasons for why a guy will come too quickly:

1. Excessive masterbation- however you clearly stated you quit so that rules this out
2. Over-excitement- not having sex for almost a week can make one pretty excited the next time the person has sex, especially if they are having sex quite often right before the break.

You just need to relax.

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I steam 6 to 8 fruits and eat those at least twice a week. As long as you're not a soda guzzler, you'll get erections that won't quit. Works for me and several friends in the know. Oysters, broccoli and cauliflower are awesome too.

You can also masturbate her clitoris and labias using your limp penis.

Btw, I've read somewhere that artificial testosterone can have a negative impact on your erections.

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I don't know. I always found masterbation and sex two totally separate entities. No matter the amount of sex i'm getting it always feels good to have a good old wank every now and then. lol

Here's what I do...

Right when I'm about to cross that "point of no return," I dismount. Get myself and my mind as far away from her as possible for like 2 seconds. Then I go down on the girl for a bit until I calm down. I try and think about something else. Sometimes I'll recite The Pledge of Allegiance 2 or 3 times and bam. I'm back to square one.

On top of that, another thing that works is grabbing your scrotum and balls from the top and then pulling downwards... Basically just stretch out your balls a bit.

Cock rings work too. Fuck, there are so many different ways to keep your dick hard.

Wearing a condom works too. Those things suck.

OR

You could just blame the girl for being so hot that you came right away. (Even if she's not THAT hot, she'll get a nice ego stroke out of it.)


I hope you're wearing a condom. The world does not need another one of you running around

Hehe, been there done that.

I've noticed that if you dismount or slow down at that "point of no return" you'll eventually stop feeling as much with your dick while still maintaining an erection. It's not as enjoyable but it definitely impresses the chick for you to be able to play the floppy fish on her nasties for an intense and long period without breaks.

I was born with exposed bell end syndrome, so my fore skin hood is always down, My little man has adapted and lost sensitivity due to many years of jean rub.

I last forever, and takes a lot of mental thought for me to cum but it is do able if I really set my mind to it.

High quality problem because the girl gets a good long shag but a quickie is impossible for me which I would like to do more often.

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And women are dirty minded kinks that love feeling a guy cum. You genuinely would not be surprised by all the women I have been with who have either wanted to skip the condom altogether or hinted and practically begged me to take off a condom and just cum inside them.