Does this girl have another guy with her, or is she just normally laissez faire? Since you guys are drifting far apart quickly, I'd wonder if she's got some other relationship that takes up all this free time of hers - or an embarrassing video game addiction she may not want you to know.

Very late edit: Try making fun of her potential video game addiction (Or something more risky if you want), it could be an easy way to bring the topic up.

She's too flaky to give her top priority.

My advice is to freeze her out. This girl is begging for attention. Keep your texting with her at its lowest (REALLY) and when she texts you to hang out, do not try to play "too cool". Just say "YES, WHERE DO WE MEET AND WHAT TIME"...

When you meet its gonna be time to take it to the next level: State your sexual intentions with her.. you either kiss her, or tell her that you want to kiss, or turn up the sexy talk, whatever you have to do. If she backs down you play it like you don't even care about it, hell you might as well say I WANNA FUCK YOU and then act normal, regardless what she says next.. like you just had epilepsia attack and don't even remember what you said and what happened. She'll definitely notice how big your balls are to say something as ballsy as that.

Freeze her out and when you meet be unapologetical about your advances..

Although most girls are all just the same not every girl responds to the same comunication method..

Say she's actually being honest and she was busy, she's got many friends and has a really active social life. She doesn't need you' she's just bored and starts texting you to feel desired and chased after.

I told you once, she craves attention son DO NOT GIVE HER ANY, do not ask her out. EVER.

THe girl is being a bitch and she knows it and she thinks she can play with you.

By asking her out you yield all the power you have. DO not do that. She's over the line and you should either consider this 3 options I present to you:

1. Freeze her out for 2 weeks.. IF she texts you just politely reply and say you're bussy. If you're on SPAM, constantly change your profile picture and loggin several times during the day just so she can check out your last loggin times. You'll drive her jealous just thinking that you're not so busy to chat with other people... Get what I'm saying? After 1 or 2 weeks text her friendly manner and just chat, be funny, not resentful, talk and talk and make her be interested in ASKING YOU OUT. WARNING, this might cause you to loose her completely cuz many girls are really resentful when being treated like that.. This is YOU ATTRACTING HER AND MAKING HER invite you not you invite her. Also this is the less needy way of making things happen.

2. Be Straig forward with her and text her something like: "Hey, you know, It's been a long time that we've been chatting/texting etc.. and we haven't had the chance to actually meet again since last time.. I kinda want to see ya again cuz we have fun together. I'll be free on Saturday (any day you feel) after i finish doing some work at home/office/whatever, what about you? Are you in? WARNING. This is a very straight forward approach. It makes her see you as an honest, sensitive, ballsy dude who's not afraid to speak his feelings/mind... Many girls respond good to this approach. BUT, in case she says she's busy and she doesn't make a counter offer (e.g. Im bussy saturday but lets make it sunday)... It will be your turn just to walk away. Think of it this way. IF YOU ARE ALFA MALE, you cannot waste time on flaky people, even if she's hot. You're a man of options, right? If she doesn't make a counter offer just leave it like that, say "its ok, well meet other time then, and never text her again.."

3. LOOSE HER NUMBER. I Know This is not the "Loose her number forum"... but this follow what my principle is and what I live by: GAME more than 3 girls simultaneously. I know, I Know, its about quality not quantity, but you can't have 1 single girl hinder your progress in the world of pickup.. Being weeks/days now with all that flakyness all her irresponsiveness... Besides, having other girls in line paying you attention puts you in a much better state of mind than just being waiting entire weeks for one girl to reply to your text..

In my opinion, try any of those, but be consistent and congruent with whatever road you decide to take. And one more thing.. Whatever you decide with this particular female, try gaming other girls too! you'll learn more, faster and a wider variety of things.. With this one girl you are just learning your way around irresponsiveness and flakyness and that's it. It's cool learning though, but I see much more potential in you.




OH one more thing...

Do not mind the results with a particular girl. Enjoy gaming, enjoy learning, and if you fuck it up, SO WHAT?! There are plenty of fish in the sea

Oh ffs dude. She's not that into you. Get a clue. She's keeping her options open and when she's bored and has nothing to do she goes out with you. If that's what you want then you're a fucking loser. You're older than her and she isn't sure about that either, trust me.

And as for BassOpens advice, I've never read such a crock of shit in all my life. Why can't you guys have normal relationships instead of playing your stupid mind games. Freeze her out, then text her, be nice, then act like you're not interested. How the holy FUCK is that normal behaviour? When you meet someone and you're BOTH into each other it flows naturally and moves along easily. Not all this stupid head fuckery. Seems to me you dudes are punching above your weight, going for girls way out of your league and have a sense of fucking entitlement that they WILL want to be with you and try every trick in the book to MAKE them want you when they aren't even that fucking into you. Try going for girls on your own level. HB4.

Dude.. chill.. You seem stressed like you haven't had sex in years. If you think this is BS then just leave dude. No one's even paying attention to your shit (Hell I didn't even read the whole piece you wrote)

Your mind is probly as small as your balls that's why you can't grasp shit of what has been told previously. Hell ! seems like you don't get shit about game too. But don't be stressed pal, I'm sure there are some self-help seminars out there that can help you calm down your anxiety and your anger

What you're posting is TIMES WORST than what everyone else has written, yet you seem so eager to get our attention! Is that what you do in life? Get pissed off and cry for attention? That is what this is... All that anger, feels like you're yelling at us!... Now.. HB4? Talk your own experience son, seems like the one experiencing problems with HB4 is you. In case you noticed this is a Pick Up Forum where guys in trouble post real, authentic questions about their problems so other people can share advice and help each other. You think your advice is the real DEAL? You think you can come in and just spread your NON-CONSTRUCTIVE shit all around? You're in the wrong place dude.

Anyways, you don't have a slightest bit of alpha in you, infact you seem so AFC.. frustrated, angry... Well.. I'll stop writting now. Peace.

BTW At least here, in this POST I dont think you'll get any respect from your peers. HOW AFC is that?

Haha, you just did the exact thing you're accusing the other guy of.

Generally speaking, you're basically fucked. Sorry man!

Oh ffs dude. She's not that into you. Get a clue. She's keeping her options open and when she's bored and has nothing to do she goes out with you. If that's what you want then you're a fucking loser. You're older than her and she isn't sure about that either, trust me.

And as for BassOpens advice, I've never read such a crock of shit in all my life. Why can't you guys have normal relationships instead of playing your stupid mind games. Freeze her out, then text her, be nice, then act like you're not interested. How the holy FUCK is that normal behaviour? When you meet someone and you're BOTH into each other it flows naturally and moves along easily. Not all this stupid head fuckery. Seems to me you dudes are punching above your weight, going for girls way out of your league and have a sense of fucking entitlement that they WILL want to be with you and try every trick in the book to MAKE them want you when they aren't even that fucking into you. Try going for girls on your own level. HB4.

Ha,That's funny I just met her this evening and it's actually ON and now proceeding as I always thought it would. She's coming over to my place tomorrow. I'll let you know what its like to fuck a 22 yr old HB9...

She's just moved here from another country, quite a big deal. I got her number and an instant date a few hours after she landed at the airport. We clicked instantly but then she was obviously busy settling into her new job, flat, etc.
I always thought she was playing games, maybe she was, maybe she wasn't. Some young girls do. Anyway, bottom line is she's been different to the usual encounter because of the circumstances and it threw me slightly but I never chased her or lost the plot (unlike yourself on here).

Ha,That's funny I just met her this evening and it's actually ON and now proceeding as I always thought it would. She's coming over to my place tomorrow. I'll let you know what its like to fuck a 22 yr old HB9...

She's just moved here from another country, quite a big deal. I got her number and an instant date a few hours after she landed at the airport. We clicked instantly but then she was obviously busy settling into her new job, flat, etc.
I always thought she was playing games, maybe she was, maybe she wasn't. Some young girls do. Anyway, bottom line is she's been different to the usual encounter because of the circumstances and it threw me slightly but I never chased her or lost the plot (unlike yourself on here).