Hi

Im 42, and I have been PUAing for a few years and I more or less know what Im doing though Im not any kind of master ninja. I d have converted many text to dates and of course it often depends very much on the in person interaction I had when I met them etc. I have experimented with all kinds of non needy ways to ask for dates ranging from "going to x, join me", "im pretty busy these few weeks but I have Thu open if you wanna x",

My issues with texting are pretty common and part of the game.

1. I want to minimize pen pal syndrome and close D2 quicker.

2. If their schedules are legitimately booked, I do offer to plan in advance but most girls that are booked the week Im texting them often just say lets touch base next week.......while younger women dont tend to pre-plan. Even when they do agree to a date thats 5+ days out, cold feet does happen. I hate doing the actual touching base next week bc I feel the girl thinks im too interested no matter how cool I play the follow up. In my case I do sometimes need to plan bc I have a young son part time. So how I do nail the date quicker? I am aware more comfort may be needed.

3. Any ways to immunize them in advance on getting cold feet the day of without sounding needy or controlling?

Thank you!

Reflex

In cases where I plan to set up the date that night, example, "I'm doing ____ come with," I usually flirt around with them using a few texts, and the ask them out. At least at that point you can see if they are receptive first, and avoid looking needy in some circumstances.

Thanks Adonis. Can you elaborate more pls? How do you flirt? Can you provide more play by play?

Thanks

My game revolves around being direct. From the onset, I make it clear that I find the girl attractive and am interested in pursuing her sexually. That being said my texts usually reflect that. To avoid being needy my general rule of thumb is that if she stops responding first, then I wait at least 24 to 48 hours before texting her again. Furthermore, If I offer an invitation to hang out and she declines, usually 3 days up to 14 days.

Me: Haven't heard from you in a few days cutie. You do have a nice ass, but your losing points.
Her: Haha fuck. Sorry what's up cutie?
Her: Send me a picture of you so I can save it hahaha
Me: [Send two picture], which one you like better?
Her: Haha I love them:) when are we going out?
Me: Thursday night once I finish my exams, send me a picture so I can take my mind of studying
Her: [Sexy picture of herself] That was from friday
Her: Good luck on your tests

Thanks Adonis, thats good stuff. Mind sharing more details on your initial text interaction (1st few times you text after you got her number) and how lay down your vibe?

Also, any comments on how you make yourself dif from the 20 other dudes texting her?

The above example is from an early interaction. As for the vibe that is something accomplished in person, I attempt to create sexual tension from that beginning of the interaction. I make it clear that I like the girl, and what she can expect. I am in my early 20's, so I believe I set myself apart by sexually confident and comfortable. A lot of guys at my age are insecure when it comes to how they think girls see them in light of sexual advances. I don't care what the girl thinks of me, or if she rejects me, so be it. I figure that girls want to be lead by a guy that knows what he wants and goes for it, I guess that's what sets you apart.

Forgot to mention. I usually keep texts light. I attempt to balance, sexually charge innuendo, humor, and slight arrogance/cockiness. The frame I adopt is that me texting her is her chance to prove herself to me.

cool, Adonis, thank you

Just curious if you have material you often use in your D2 to set sexual tension from the get go...that you can share?