What's up guys.

So I'm in the daygame/cold approach during daytime scene and met this girl on the train. We ended up seeing one another regularly on the train on our way, to and from work. She's a total church girl, like the ones that will speak about God and purity, but inside, she's horny like hell.

So tonight, after a really mediocre daygame session, she came over to my place for dinner (first date). Throughout the night there was this raw sexual tension between us. We went back to my room, sat down, and I sat real close, moving in closer to kiss. She resisted a few times (with some weird excuse that she wants to continue seeing me, but if she kisses me, she can't). I kept on pushing that boundary, and about 5 - 10 mins later we were making out heavily, with my hand under top. Again after about 5 mins of making out, she resisted again. So I just laid back, had this smirk on my face. A few minutes later I dropped her off at her place. I should've pulled the trigger and continued pushing against her resistances, but at the time I was in my head about "respecting her boundary".

We sat in my car for about 5 mins talking about why she's resisting even just kissing me (she wants more than just that), she's made this pledge to herself that she will remain pure. Now regardless of the fact that we made out, I know she wants more and wants to see me again, but she tells me that she can't kiss me again, if she wants to continue seeing me.

Should I just escalate every time she's at my place, regardless of the ridiculous boundaries she's setting for herself? I suppose this might just be a rhetorical question, but I'd like to hear some opinions on this.

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"Everything you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it" - Gandhi

Oh man, that reeks of jail bait.

Too easy for chicks like that to feel like they were tricked into something and turn it around into you having raped her that she "didn't really want it but you persisted and forced it." I would just state my intentions and expectations before so she's well aware of what you want to happen that way she can't exactly turn back and say she had no idea you wanted to pursue that route.

Shame is a powerful thing. Don't neglect it. If she slept with you she will be highly ashamed of herself and seek to blame something else for it(You). Essentially, what you're doing is tempting her(Evil/Adam and Eve and forbidden fruit/Devil). It would be far too easy for her to see you as an evil temptation and have no guilt in blaming you for "corrupting" her.

Thing is, she knows I only want to keep things casual. No serious relationship. She's in agreement with that. On another level, she knows where not "just friends". She wants to see me again. Were in agreement with that too.

Do you suggest I verbally let her know what I want to fuck her? Because non-verbally, she already knows that.

I think it will be smart of me not to text her for a couple of days, unless she initiates the texting herself. I want her to chase me while I'm out on daygame sessions.

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"Everything you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it" - Gandhi

I think you just need to state your interest here and not try escalate in your bedroom for the reason I outlined in my previous post. Better to get it out of the way and let her agree on her own time instead of risking being called a rapist.