Name: The_Chemist
Gender: Male
Status: Single
Goal: Learn the techniques of a PUA and eventualy become one

Hi,

I'm 18 and live in Slovenia. I have a problem, and its starting or leading a conversation with a girl, because I lack the selfesteem of going to a girl and say something to her. The cause of my problem is that I never went out much, until now, when I decided I want to start looking for a girlfriend or just a one night stand. Before that I was always at home, helping my mom (dad dyed) and never going out, and when I asked if i can go out, it was always a problem for my family, because they naged about who will drive me and who will pick me up. A nother problem I have is that when Im sitting with people, I never try to become the alfa male, I'm quiet and listen to others, and casualy say something.
So that's my story, and I hope that this forum will give me the ''push'' I need to become a PUA, and start a conversation, not just stand there and say ''Nice weather we have today'' and than avkwardly just stand there and look all wierd.

hey man i read what u wrote and i wanted to advice u about the aproach well first of all u should think about it like that, always admire ur self like say, hey man im an awsome dude i know what i worth and what i can give to ppl and if some1 dont like it its hes problem,basicly if u say it to your self couple of times u will start fell better about ur self ur selfesteem will rise and u will feel good,another thing u should think of is that ,lets say u go out and see a cute girl u think to ur self that u wanth to know here but u scared to aproach,so ask ur self this what the worst thing that could possebly happend ?, that she will say i got a bf or im not intersted ? so what go on there are alot of other preety and cute girls like here and when u will think about that u will feel better relaxed and less strested about aproaching here, and if u still fell stressed that happends alot to anyone theres something i realy like to do, its like a small game that will build ur selfesteem or make u fell like u dont give a fck,
if u feel stressed just go around say hi to ppl dosent matter who or high5 them u will feel alot more comfterball cause u doing somthing funny and wierd and it will give u a better selfesteem to go aproach.

so i hope i helped u a little bit and if u have more question ur free to p.m me

Thanks for the advice, i will definetly try these techniques and try and keep u updated on my success

Use an "opinion opener" If the girl likes you she will keep the conversation going. If she's not interested - bear in mind she doesn't know you enough to make an accurate decision - then there is no rejection to deal with. After all...you only asked for a female opinion on something.

Hey

Problem with low self esteem is that ppl see you as u see yourself. So, if u think u r not attractive people will feel it and u will be less attractive to them, if u convince yourself u r attractive, ppl will found u more attractive.
Important is also how you behave: if u behave like alpha, ppl will see you as alpha, but u need to feel it too otherwise they will notice your insecurity which is not alpha at all.
i always suggest to convince yourself you r confident, and if it doesn't goes otherwise, just pretend you r confident, at some point u will get used to it.

how old r u If i may ask?

best regards and good luck with your inner game..

Welcome

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