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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2014 4:12 pm 
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Alright, so Ive known this girl for close to 3 years now. Both of us have had our own relationships but have stayed together through it all. Last month we went on a trip with a group for close to 5 days. We were on a charter bus for 20 hours either way. On the bus at night she either slept leaning on me somewhat, or leaned up against the window with her legs across my lap so she could say down. She'd try to teach me things about the stars and things going on outside at night. On the vacation we spent probably abouy 95% of the days together, we'd go the same places, do the same things and eat the same places. Mostly just the two of us except for a few hours. Most of the time from what I could see when I was around she would usually be playing with her hair, twirling it around, etc. On the bus she put some makeup on, and had me listen to some of the music she brought. One morning I randomly said "my back hurts" which she spent 10 minutes getting the knot out of my back. At one of the restaurants, we were with a group of 2 other people and we were sitting diagonally from each other. She randomly sent me a picture of myself and sent me "Hi" with it. I did the same to her, then she did it again. I can also make this girl laugh so hard she cries with very little effort and if I say something stupid or a small joke, she'll smile at me. When we would go on rides she'd hold my phone, sun glasses and knife in her purse. On the way back I owed her a favor for the back massage and she said earlier her feet hurt, so I repaid her with a foot massage. That ended up into me massaging her legs (she wanted me to) and giving her a hand massage. She is great at giving massages and would show me how to do it on my hand (just an excuse to touch my hand along with the hand massage she wanted?) Every now and then she'd randomly poke me, or if I said something when she was half asleep she'd "slap" me vert gently. Before we left she gave us names. She's Sunshine and I'm Honeybun. She came up with both of them. There's things I'm leaving out that I just cant think of right now.


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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2014 4:40 pm 
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Does she actually need to slap you in the face with her pussy before you get the CLEAR message?

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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2014 4:43 pm 
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I think she's enough into you for you to try some serious kino (thing you should have started A LONG time ago...).


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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2014 5:01 pm 
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Cool story bro - nice enthusiasm!
It sounds like she was/is into you and she gave you the chance to move things forward with that leg massage but you didn't - take chances and don't be afraid to sexxually escalatee

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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2014 5:02 pm 
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During the times she's been in a relationship we didn't talk too much. Not near like we would if we were both single. She wasn't uncomfortable with my hands on her legs even when I wasn't massaging them.

She kind of invited herself to a party I'm having too. I just brought it up in conversation and she said "if its not on this day at this time I'll be there".

One of the places we were at we tried to get away from the people with us. After we got through the concession stand line she text me "in back" meaning the back of the stand we were at so just I could find her.

I've heard I'm deep in the friend zone from quite a few, you guys think she's past friends? I'll start trying some things and take it from there.

She also told me she thought she ha the best body out of the group we were with. I guess trying to see what I'd say. I told her yes, by far. We would also try to push eachother and play fight type thing. Shed push on me, I'd push back, then we'd push eachother until one of us stopped. She had the wall to her advantage to push off. Just more excuses to interact with me?


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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2014 6:06 pm 
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GOOD LORD MAN, she wants to fuck you lead her to that!

Don't end up like this:

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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2014 7:49 pm 
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I've been thinking these are some strong signals for "friends". I also didn't mention if I got my finger close to her face she'd play bite it. I don't think she'd do some of these if she wanted to be just friends.


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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2014 11:19 pm 
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You need to escalate the next time you see her. ASAP. Read some sixty years of challenge. Isolate her, keep flirting with her, grab her hand and don't let go and things should be easy from there. Start "paying her back" with a massage and start playing stroking her ass etc., after a few minutes of massage. If you can't do it after that, I can't help you.

Oh, and don't get discouraged if she resists your advances at first (i.e. pulls back her hand) just play it off like nothing happened, be cool, wait a minute or two and then try again. Anti-slut defense, look it up. The first "no" doesn't always mean "no".


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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2014 4:13 am 
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I'm planning on it. I would hate to risk losing her through rejection because she is a great addition in my life, but I think there could be more behind it and apparently you guys think so too. She also called me her cuddle buddy one night on the bus. Figure a friend wouldn't consider me a cuddle buddy.


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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2014 3:36 pm 
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I would try. If i was in your place I would try hard...


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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2014 5:02 pm 
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She has her days. Like this morning, she wasn't too hot on me, but still accepted me and talked to me. She stopped walking where she was going to talk and waved at me before I got to her. Looked me straight in the eyes when we talked. She's a hyper one, I think that along with there being tons of people around (she's a people person) kind of put her in a hyper spell. When were alone or not being bothered she's different with me. Guess that's just park of the package with her.


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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2014 5:11 pm 
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It's time to take the red pill, and face your challenge. After procrastinating lone enough she'll just dump you into the dreaded friend zone.

She wants sex just as badly as you do, but as man we must be the leader.

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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2014 9:48 pm 
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I'm working on it. I don't see her tons in a regular day so i have to work a little harder. She yelled at me toget my attention from about 75 yards today to make sure I noticed her. She was with one of her friends at the time. Ive taken both of them to lunch together several times. She made sure she got my attention though.


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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2014 10:13 pm 
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dude next time your alone with this girl and you dont escalate and try for a kiss, you loose your dick card. if she backs away from the kiss do not and I mean do not take it as a rejection and plssss based on your posts for the love of god do not say "I like you do you like me" she wouldnt be giving you alll these OMG NOTICE ME FUCKING SIGNALS if she didn't MAKE A GOD ASJGAJGHAKFGA;LFKG FUCKING MOVE


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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2014 10:22 pm 
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I'm gonna disagree and say you're friendzoned really god damn hard. The impression i'm given is that she sees you as an older brother type.

Still, i'd be interested to know how this ends up. Make a move and see what happens. No harm done in making a move on her especially given the circumstances. If she gives you the LJBF talk then you know and you can just carry on as normal. "That's cool. Hope it doesn't make you feel weird after me making a move." <--- Basically disarms her and shows you're the one that doesn't care much about it and don't see it as a big deal. If she doesn't and lets you close her then happy days, right?

Let us know what happens here. Really interested in knowing if she wants to jump your junk or friendzoned you.


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