OK first post guys, little background about myself.. I don't really use any specific techniques in picking up woman, I guess "cocky funny" if anything, but generally I don't have problems with getting chicks. This one however is throwing me for a loop!!!

I met this girl at a bar, we hit if off immediately, talked for a while built a good rapport. I ended up driving her home and stayed at her place. We fooled around, but we never had sex. I never thought about it at the time, but the next morning I tried to be a little affectionate with her, touch feely, but I didn't' get anything back. I didn't think much about it at the time.

We start texting all the time. Ended up going on a real date, I took her to diner then drinks, things were going well she made compliments I never got from anyone before, such as "i can't believe you're single". "you're so handsome" blah blah blah. Took her back home and we made out in the car, had her shirt off etc so things were progressing well.

Third date we went out for happy hour, she seemed a little reserved this time around, we ended up just making out. 4th date I took her to dinner and drinks afterwards, and most recently she came over to watch a movie. but here is where it gets strange. She sat on my bed, and we did NOTHING. I tried to get her to lay next to me, she responded " if I lay down, I'm going to fall asleep" we didn't hook up, not a touch, nor did we talk much. I never felt so awkward every with a girl, when she left she ended up giving me a kiss, but no tongue, more like a good buy kiss.

I'm having trouble reading her now, I feel like she's giving me the cold shoulder. Of course now I really like this girl, and it's driving me crazy!!! She never seems to show any affection what so ever, no holding hands, touching, etc. She def acts different when shes drinking opposed to when I pick her up sober. lol

What's the deal? any advice as to what my approach would be ?? Note she's 23 and I'm 31, I don't think she has ever dated someone my age, and she also recently broke it off with her boyfriend a month ago. I met her like a month ago, and we haven't gone more than a day with out texting but now I think she's a bit more distant.

THANKS!!!

Keep going for the meet and keep trying.

There could be a million reasons why she won't go through with it, could be simple like an ex bf back on the scene.

Meet/Red wine/escalate

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Yea I'm gonna keep trying, but I feel like she's got control.. I can't believe I let this happen!

She goes out a lot, seems to like to party... I mean she's 23... But there have been times where I asked her "what's your week looking like, maybe we can hang Fri" and she ends up going out with friends.. She also invited me to hang with her friends as well.

She I try to freeze her out a bit ?