I think it's hard to remember all this stuff and keep your heart. I still have trouble discerning between the two. When you love someone, you just want to give them everything, and I know what it feels like to be on both sides of the fence on that issue. I would love perfect equality without the bias and the "who loves/wants who more" but the longer I live, the more I realize that it's not really possible. Better to take the reigns myself and guide it to some semblance of equality. To let her be someone I can respect, not just a sex object. It's a responsibility, and a tough one for sure, but whenever I've ever let a women have that responsibility, they have failed miserably. Women generally are not as in control of their emotions and impulses as Men are. Masochistic, but true.

It's like the story of the Scorpion and the Fox, or the Spider and the Frog. If you haven't heard it, you should. Women aren't trying to hurt you or shit-test you. It's just in their nature. Bred in after millions of years of evolution. There is no malice in it (ok maybe with some).

And I'm gonna stop now because I'm going all rant-y and losing my train of thought.

Don't know if this qualifies as a "soft next", but #$%# it.

Girl texts me tonight blowing my phone up while she's partying and I say, "shouldn't you be talking/socializing with your friends, enjoying the night young lady? " She replies coldly "yea, because 5 seconds for sending a message to you is being anti-social" She's probably right, I dunno, don't care. I froze her out because I didn't like that response. Is that the right usage?