I really don't understand if I'm just not photogenic or what, but I can't get anyone to message me back that i find interesting and attractive. I don't go try hard and try to think of some lame ass compliment. I just simply say hello and thats it. Sometimes i get a reply but it just dies out.

I'm not an ugly guy... I get those "looks" in public and I'm sure i could easily get a girl. I mean back in high school there was a couple girls who were attractive as fuck that liked me, but i didn't have the balls to do anything about it. Mostly my speech impediment was the problem. I have a mild stutter but I'm fluent most of the time. Just kinda hard to start up a conversation with someone.

Dating sites blow dick... like you need to be jacked as fuck to get a response from these girls.

They say they ain't lookin for mr perfect but... lmfao. My ass.

So whats the deal? How are you supposed to get them?

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I simply either say "Hey there ", something related to their profile and turn it into a question, or just say,"I can't think of anything clever without making it cliche butt your pretty"/etc.

I'm not trying to think of some lame ass compliment that supposed to be funny. This girl i was talking to... she sent me a pic of what these guys send her its funny as hell and she said she never responds cuz its so lame.

This was was saying something about bikini bottom and something related to spongebob... its so lame.

I know what you mean about getting replies! Woman just get so many messages that they can afford to be very very choosy.....what I find is that being very cheeky gets your foot in the door....most guys are being nice or standard

I actually did an experiment with one of my good friends with sites like okcupid and pof. My friend is pretty ripped and big. He messaged girls the same thing i did and he got replies from almost all of them. He could of EASILY and i mean EASILY hooked up with most of them. Some were up for fwb and sent pics to him over kik.

We both did the same exact thing and he got... well. Most of the girls he messaged he got a reply.
For me... Barely nobody.

From what we both noticed is that girls don't give a shit about personality on that site, only looks. So if you're ripped and workout you should have no problem getting girls on these sites. Most of them are looking for a fuck buddy too.

I'm not very ripped as my friend is haha.

Post a link or pm someone of your dating profile(s). We can tell you why you're not getting replies.

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I barely have anything on my profile. I just make it simple and say im going with the flow. I don't write any lame essays explaining about my life. On okcupid i just fill in the "summary" part and thats about it. Nothing else. I don't see a point in it.

Probably explains why you don't get replies then...

Send me a PM, i'm actually trying to help believe it or not...

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Dating sites, you need to get professional pics and send 20-30 openers a day...


For me is a big waste of time... Some people have had sucess with tined, and hot or not... anyways, i stick to traditional game, online a hot girl gets 50-100 openers a day....

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There isn't 30 people around my area haha, well the attractive ones.

I updated my profile to be more fun to read and what not.. but i really doubt girls read it. They just look at the pics and shit.

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you tit.

That's like making a strip club in a desert.

Move location

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Lmfao. There are a bunch of fat and ugly girls on okcupid around my area. There are some girls i find attractive but they like either respond once and never again, or dont even reply. I just really dont understand wtf is wrong with these girls. I'm 19 so Im still pretty close to the girls up in high school.. Juniors+. And the girls that liked me and i could of fucked i find more attractive than the girls up in okcupid. I swear im just not photogenic or girls just find my personality and accent attractive in person since you cant really show it online...

I'm not making excuses like i could link you the girls that i could of easily been with. Just didnt have the balls and my stuttering kinda ruined it for me back then since i wasnt very social.

That's not ideal at all. She will interpret it as apologetic.

Simple statements will work better. Trying to come off interesting or different will only come across like you're trying too hard.

Here's some openers that I've used on PoF which have turned into real interaction:

"Soon?" (Her response was "why not?")

"Hello [Girls Name], you absolute beauty"

"You're going to be my woman"

"What do you reckon about me and you then"

"Oh wow, absolutely beautiful. Get off this site and get with me"

"Will you be my girlfriend"

"[Girls Name] you absolute beauty, how's it going?"

On Tinder I often use:

"Hey [Girls Name or "beauty"], how's it going? How funny is this app x"

I haven't tried OKCupid but POF is a lot more profile based than Tinder. On POF it's worth demonstrating something about your personality and making it catchy - I recommend using at least 1 photo that demonstrates social proof and a description in which you don't take yourself too seriously.

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Most of those lines seem a bit creepy and comes off as desperate? lmao

Have you field tested them? if not, your claim have not validity...

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