haha gold digger you are seriously delusional. good luck being a cheap ass.

So basically you have no money, no real status in life, are on minimum wage, a student and you go to high end clubs hoping the Queen of Sheba will buy you a drink? You are way out of your depth here dude and you know it. Stop pretending to be something you're not and stop being such a fucking, big fake and grow up. You have nothing to offer any of these women except one expensive drink and do you want to know why? Because your whole attitude stinks man.

The florists and the secretaries that you look down on with your big, stuck up fucking nose are ironically what you can realistically get so if I were you I'd stop demeaning them and bringing them down with your shitty, snobby remarks you ignorant cunt. Just because you wear flashy suits and have expensive watches means jack shit. You never even bought them yourself dude. They were GIVEN to you so you're not as fucking wonderful as you think you are.

And well done to all the guys on here telling him like it is! Take our advice and live within your means, stop going to these high end clubs, stop punching above your weight and be realistic because you're nothing but a poor, penniless student you fucking idiot.

Wow, first time I think I've actually agreed with Digital Spy on something. Maybe not everything she said but, the idea of it.

Let's face it man. You're either ignorant or an idiot. A high status woman doesn't mean better quality, better looking, better value, or better person. In fact it's usually the opposite. If you're not into them for the money, (which your name kind of points to) than your in it for the trophy of banging some high status chick. The people that say you give PUA's a bad name are right.

Now for advice. You want to bang high status chicks than go ahead, it's your life. If you can't afford it than only go like once a month, or whatever you can afford. That's common sense. I don't think you need PUA advice, I think you need financial advice. And moral advice. And a fucking brain.

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Women don't want a nice guy, and they don't want a bad boy. They want a MAN.

You're putting the cart before the horse.

Fuck women's brains out first and when they're hooked, cut the service off if they don't pay up for the good service. It's that simple. A sexually satisfied woman is a generous woman. If you can't fuck women well, you can't get them to be generous with you.

Persuade through your cock. That's how it works.

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It's hardly surprising that you can't get these women to buy you a drink.

You're doing so much to fit in with this social crowd that you're not going to stand out and have any appeal.

Why should they want to talk to the guy in his expensive clothing trying his best to impress when they can have a conversation with the student who just wants to make them laugh?


Sure, having wealth and displaying power can show value but you forget there are other means to showing value to women as well: humour, security, authenticity to name a few. In fact in my opinion these are better than wealth.

When she's interested in you she will buy you drinks to keep you around.

I wouldn't do it but I don't think he's got a completely invalid strategy. He's probably doing it for the wrong reasons though. If he is able to show these rich women a great time, make them laugh, cry, and orgasm then they probably don't care if he has money or not. If they have money then they might be happy to pay for things, and just have a good time in between their busy, stressful lives.

I think some of the posts here have been a bit too harsh on the guy, even though I agree that he seems to be doing it for the wrong reasons and with the wrong attitude.

I think there's nothing wrong with what he's doing as long as it's a fair exchange and is consented to by both parties. She brings money, he brings a good time, and works his way into the influential social circles and if he's good enough and can offer enough value, the money will come to him later.

They say your environment is stronger than your will, and your income throughout your life will always be the average of your 5 closest friends. So make friends with richer and more successful people and listen and learn from them.

I usually do bets that I know that I'm going to win. You know like those tricky tests. Like who can drink faster 2 straws vs 1

Hi, i'm new here. I got into this concert last sunday and these chicks were all around. I was supposed to bring my fat brother with me, but hes busy. I set out on my own. Don't know... I was mocked loser for being alone there... i slept a little... don't know what to do... i'm not playing that mysterious guy sort of thing, but that's what left me there... i didn't intend to not pay the entrance fee, and im sick of all these badboys niceguys shit i always hear... I want to be a play boy... I still have the qualities of a gentleman that i like... good qualities... but i still can choose to bring on the dark side of me, and become the bad boy... sometimes its uncontrollable... because based on experience, it was a heartbreak that waked my dark side. These chicks, the judge, the bartender, all sorts of girls that pass by me i noticed all want to have sex with me... some of them slide their legs on mine... hehe... it felt good... damn, i sold my cellphone... i was ready to ask the judge girl's name... just waiting for the show to end... there are lot of performers there. i was getting knowledge/experience from the concert. it is held on a bar. I am creating a band right now. The performers there were all rockin and they were all doing good and great. there came a moment when some goodlooking(some look like models) and really bad ass performers that entered the stage... I liked their song... I am now practcing growl... I was influenced... Some songs were related to me... I was on a back seat just sitting by the bartenders counter... pardon me if I put zodiac signs here... i think sometimes theyre important and that a famous pickup artist named Vin dicarlo has used these signs to create his Pandora's Box for the girl's categorization... Maybe... I sometimes know what to do when I know the sign of the person... but these signs are really sometimes annoying and waa, just plain old... i looked at the bartender, and i felt strong that time, and I have the charisma and upfront face that says, "I know what I want on the face of the earth'. Some sorta like a commanding front. Not a wussy front. hehe. Even if I was all by my own... The girl's eyes were somehow like surprised and not like what I saw from my past nice guy personality... They looked at me weird... She looks interested... She's also one of those who came passed by me and slid her legs on mine... Anyways... Just chilled... Just got one beer. Hehe. I was cautious too spend the entrance fee money, because I may get caught... The other judge is having an eye on me... There are other ladies looking at me too.. Singles and there are this couple infront me, and you know, this sometimes happens... she looks at me in a way that says, "this can fuck me now..." maybe subconciously... anyways... dont care... just watched the show... my fucking cigarettes are all gone, and my butt is all itching just by sitting there so I went out and bought me some cigs and some cheap juice.. i was planning to pay the entrance fee later, but was also thinking that I need to do some bad moves and hide the money, for the judge girl...

This thing in my head... Sorry for that long story... Hehe. I am wondering right now if it's possible that I can make her buy her own drink I buy mine... That sort of thing... Because, if I buy us two of the drinks...(she's a smoker, and I think she's the independent type), saw her at the entrance when the show wasn't still starting, and i thought she was a piscean shit... I always get the thought that they are weaklings and need help because i've read they are dependent creatures... yeah, i know... they're mutable and can really become strong and truly set out on their own... Just minding my own, and head up on the terrace and smoked, went back... She has a band too, she mentioned... Shes wearing a mini shorts and a white shirt... blouse i mean...

I was having first these irrational thoughts(because I don't have cellphone), I'll fuck her in the bathroom(women's), or on the ground floor... when the show's over... Let us drink beer. That's my question here right now. Do some of you already have a successful experience where the girl was still happy she bought the drink for herself, because since being a nice guy back then(and heck, girls love freedom, and they also sometimes want to prove that they can handle themselves... sometimes, when their mood is on the feminine side, they just want someone to catch them when they fall)... something like that... If I buy her a drink, I'll lose all my money... My aim is that I know her name, that's important of all... Her name defines her. Then chitchat a bit and it's better to dazzle up our senses with beer after all the rocknroll and the aroma of the place... She wants sex, I know it. Straight to the thing. Man... Stupid.. I bought cigarettes and the show's already over... Atleast I learned and experienced a concert again... Don't know if she already has a boyfriend... Why would she do that? Slide her legs on mine, meaning 'later, let's have sex'.

She slid it in really infront of me... put her right whole leg inside my between and moved sexilly... hehe.. felt good.

I'm the man, and I they say I should take the first move. That's why I need to be confident enough even if I feel nervous to approach a girl sometimes, to get her name. Just plain tell her that I sold my phone. She could ask, "Why?" or become silent and think.. "Why?.." Inside... I am building trust.. rapport... So I need to be confident on my own skin... Be true... Whatever...

Do you know that I look haggard that time? Yep, I went to the cr to wash my face after every smoke, and readied myself, and washed my penis and cleaned my self a little... I have this attitude that I commit a lot of mistakes... I find it funny sometimes... Men may get intimidated at me, but I just move on, because I am different, maybe?... I went to the fucking women's cr on my first pee and facewash... i also drank on the water there on the faucet... Tap wat
er tastes better than the water we always order...

What are these girl tests? Man, forgive me if this is long. So... yeah... The question is, have you had any experience on girls buying you a drink or their drink instead of you buying all the fun stuff?

You wanna know each other... I just want her to do her thing. We don't know each other fully well, and I want her to buy her own beer, and I buy mine. I'll look like so needy for sex if I buy us two beers using my money, and of course, i'll lose my money on the way home... im still building a connection... What must I do so she will buy her own beer? First thing I thought is I can ask her straight... She could lie but since sex comes in, she may also do whatever must be done just for us together to get into bed.

Mistakes can really help you learn. Don't be afraid to take risks, and make mistakes on purpose so you can learn.

I must stand tall, even if I'm short... I think we're the same height... I could ask, "Do you have any money with you?" She's the judge, and she has a band(that's why sometimes you gotta be really observant and get information as much as you can even if it is through the chitchat of others or directly from her)(You can also look on a girl's to see some of her infos. This might be called stalking, but what the heck, you're interested to know her, and what's bad about looking at her public profile? If it's private, then.. Whatever)

You also got to have a strong memory... you can drink juices or food, fuck what you eat, just to get strong memory... don't know about the food nutrient chart... just a little...

What can she reply? That's a pass 50%, approx. 75% or 80% or more she'll say yes.

1) she already wants sex. from her sliding of her legs through mine, and even if there were band performers that were white(and I'm brown), and look like models, and there's really good asskicking bands that performed...

She's just testing me to see if I can still stand my ground, and persist to what I want from her...

Her attraction on me might got low, but that's only temporary, because she already did that sliding of her legs, and there's still a memory at the back of her brain of sex with me, and she's picking... choosing... analyzing the situation on who will get her here... and be man enough to have some balls and ask her name and converse and chitchat, drink beer, have fun, make her laugh, ask her questions, make her interested...

the conversation musn't always be on her. she will also ask me questions... i'll answer them as much as i can... be naturally funny jut by being you and not trying hard and looking back at looking at the ceiling trying to remember a pickup line or something... Just stay calm and get the idea to your head and put it deep inside there that if you're a true guy or man you aint afraid whether you get the girl or not. it's no big deal if she walks away because maybe she's not interested on you, or there's an emergency, or whatever reason...

She wants to know you, and you must stay natural all the time... You can nervous... Make eye contact because you want to know her, and when eyes meet, they reach the soul... You can look away after some time when you finish your speech... whatever... that sort of thing...

Sorry if this is long. This can be helpful to many users here.

Based on this experience, I can conclude that the best way to get women to buy me a drink or drinks? Maybe drinks(she can buy if she's really into you and she finds you really attractive and wants to have sex with you too and has the desire to do anything just to get you to bed, and has really at have many money that she is bringing with her right at the bar at that moment)... Make yourself stand tall among the others... You don't have to compete hard... just gotta have your own style that makes you unique... She might see you and yeah, be a man if you want to know her, get her name, her phone number, and sizzle and make her laugh because he hormones when you make her laugh is connected to her sex desire... She will feel more sexually attracted to you if you can make her laugh... Not a used-up pickup line that she may already have heard from other men.. just stay natural... Remember that... Be real. A natural gamer... A Play Boy...

You must also have your own money, and come off looking simply you(but clean, so you can ready anytime you and her will have sex later, and she'll smell from you nice or you must not smell like you entered the bar through the canals... hehe) ...

When you want her to buy you a drink only, then ask her...

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