First time poster. Looking for advice, figured this forum could be a good place.

I just typed out a really long detailed story, but don't want to bore everyone here, especially on my first post.

Not trying to seem like a hot shot, but I am a good looking guy who has never had a problem picking up women.
I am 33 years old, and I basically just have lots of meaningless sex with lots of women, and there's not much more to it. Haven't had a serious girlfriend in many years. I like to say that I just haven't met anyone that I want to be with, but there's probably something more to it, lol who knows.

I have basically been ok with this, until recently. Been finding it very unfullfilling. Guess I'm just getting older.

I recently met a 22 year old girl who I have completely fallen for. Beautiful, smart, all around good person.

The past few weeks we have been texting non stop, lot of flirting, and slept together a few times. Honestly, it's been amazing.

She is now in the middle of studying for exams. She is in a very demanding program, and she basically warned me that she is going to be very focused on studying.
So last week I barely heard from her. I understand that her priority is her work, and not me... which is fine... we aren't official at all.

I guess my insecurities got the better of me and I called her out a few times on being cold. She explained again how busy she is with school, and I said I understand. Few days later I fuckin did it again. Idiot

So what went from us being really all over each other, we're basically not talking anymore. She still has another week of exams, so I'm not expecting to hear from her this week, but I don't think the exams are really the reason. Think I fucked this one up.

I can't get her out of my mind, and don't know how to handle this one. I really haven't experienced something like this in many years. She really got me here. It's come to a point where just looking at her instagram pics is pissing me off cause I'm aching to be with her again. I went out last night and slept with someone and was thinking of her the whole time. Taking out a different girl tonight, but think it will be the same deal.

Half of me thinks that I fucked it up, and I should just walk away and leave it alone. But I really do want to get this girl to be crazy about me again, like she was when we first started hanging out. She has witnessed my slight insecurity bout and this most likely have turned her off...

I'm going to stop texting her cause don't want to come across as insane! But I really do want to fix this.

Hope this came across as somewhat coherent, lol. Any advice would be appreciated.

I don't really have any advise for you as I am kind of in the same boat. It sucks when you have no problems seeing other women but when you finally meet someone you are really interested in you end up messing it up.

ya dude, big time sucks.
I don't really know how she expected me to act. It went from us being all over each other and her telling me how just seeing me was driving her wild, to zero communication. She told me she'd be busy with exams, but I really wasn't expecting absolutely no talking. I could have handled it much better, but still...
Problem is, I see her pretty often at the gym. if I see her this week, I won't completely ignore her as that's a little too obvious that I'm angry about this situation, but I guess I have to be a little distant. Not really sure what the right play is here.
Funny, spoke to a friend of mine about this yesterday. He told me that SHE is playing the game that I usually play with girls. Karma? lol

Hey man, I just wanted to add that I don't think you "Messed this up". You obviously haven't been in school for a while .
I just went through something similar with my exams, I kept up on my Home work,studies etc. but not everyone does... some people begin cramming 3 weeks in advance, this is where ALL my girls completely fell off the chart, and I was all caught up, so just felt alone... yes you want to text/call, and yes you do come off as desperate, but don't worry, after exams she'll want to celebrate I'm sure .

The only reason shes "ignoring" you is just to focus, its not personal, just really stressful for her right now,school is serious business.
If you see her at the gym yes go say hi, and joke with her. I usually ask the girls "So do all the text books start to smell the same after a while?" .

Hope all goes well champ!

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So ran into her today at the gym. Kept things very casual. Basically was a "hey, how's it going, good luck this week on exams", and was on my way.

As I was leaving the gym, there is this really beautiful girl that I ran into, who has always had a crush on me.For whatever reason, I'm not into it, but we are friends.

She was telling me a story, and out of the corner of my eye, I see my girl walking towards where I'm standing talking to beautiful girl. She doesn't know that I see her, but I see she's checking me out talking to this girl, and as she gets closer, I make sure to put my hand on the beautiful girl's low back while giving her a big smile, totally focusing on only her. As my girl walks past us, I catch her sneak a few peaks again.

Timing-wise this worked out really well. Not saying this is gonna fix everything, but think this will help