I could use any advise I can get on sarging alone.

I'd say it is a big sticking point in my life right now. It's not always easy to get ppl out. Schedules; chumps; being broke; laziness etc, so I'm stuck wanting to go out all the time, but have to do it by myself a lot, but, with Abundance being a HUGE aspect in game, I just don't know how to work, on my own, in any venue/scenario, on my own. I feel I automatically look like a chump for being on my own. This is especially in nightlife.

I feel I'm unable to Demonstrate Higher Value, being by myself.
So any tips are much appreciated!

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It's all in a state of mind. Be the bigger man, and you can never lose.

From my own experience it is much better to go out alone! Mostly because friends tend to drag you down. Either they bore you, not being able to pump up your state, or they cling on you and can't let you be alone with a girl (thinking you are impolite towards them), or they just become general obstacles that you have to take care about.

If you go out alone I recommend doing so quite frequently, and gain social momentum over time. In the beginning of a night, don't have any expectations on yourself about approaching girls. Instead, approach guys who look just as alone and lost as yourself and befriend them. That will hopefully get you in a good mood and improve your chances with girls later on.

If you approach a set of two girls, be prepared to entertain them both! You can never let any of them feel left outside or unwanted. So you have to give equal attention to both, entertain them both, and give IOIs to both. I also recommend to lock yourself in if you are standing up (google "locking in pua" or something similar).

Hey mate I used to be flat out scared to go out alone I had social anxiety to the 9's, but I pushed through it after a couple of rough sarges I got the hang of it looking back some of my best sarges were when I went out alone in fact my 1st 3some was a product of going out alone. If you want some tips for going out alone 2 good articles I've read were www.wayoftheplayer.com and the players guide to going out alone as well as www.badboylifestyle.com badboy's guide to going out alone. There's some good tips in both of those articles.

This was already posted earlier this week... read Lizard Kings response.
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I'm going out alone tonight, going to shoot some pool,have a drink,open some sets. get out and enjoy myself. YOU ARE A FREE MAN!.

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" I never regret doing it, but i always regret not doing it...."
~Compass