Hey guys, first real post in here, so be gentle with me ha

Right I'll try keep it as brief as possible so you don't lose interest!

Basically last weekend, myself and a group of about 4 friends travelled abroad for a few nights. It was all in aid of watching a soccer team we follow. So basically there were plenty of other people from our city/surrounding area there. We kind of grouped up with more people we knew. Turns out, three girls were amongst the group, I knew their faces but never really spoken to them. Well just by chance I got talking to one of them on the first night. And then gradually spoke to to the other two. Didn't think anything of it tbf, just being friendly etc.

We all grouped together and hung out for the two nights we were there, but in total probably about 12 of us. And I know one or two of the other dudes had their eye on the girls. Anyway for the sake of this message, I'll give the chick on my my mind the alias of 'SALLY'. we all hung out, and got on really well, lots of jokes, beer, banter and fun times. Anyhow on our final night, SALLY calls me over as there are some local guys eyeing her up and trying to chat, she says 'pretend we're together' and starts flirting a lot. The odd bit of touchy feely etc. Now I just went along as I thout it was just a deterrent to the over confident local guys, and it is only now I wished I'd acted upon my feelings.

Now I received a Facebook friend request the other day, and left her a joke wall message (in joke from the holiday) to which she played along with in a Flirty way but it was hijacked by another friend who was trying to be a bit of a cock block I think. Now I'm under no illusions, I am by no means sure if she is attracted to me or not. I consider myself OK in the looks department, and have not got a bad track record with the ladies but I'm not a regular PUA by any means. But anyway back to the topic of my message, I haven't seen SALLY for about 9 days now, and he next time potentially is a week on Saturday at the game. She is quite pretty, and really pleasant and friendly. And also likes a lot of the same music as me, so there are some mutual interests, and we have a few mutual friends also.

I'm just not sure where to go from here, she is pretty and I enjoyed her company and some flirting on holiday, I don't know if it would be a bit weird for me to randomly just send her a Facebook message. But the more time goes by, I guess that the likelyhood I can charm her is less. I'm not really somebody to suffer from lack of confidence but conversely because I don't have her phone number, or know her that well in general I am at a bit of a dead end in my mind.

Any pointers guys? Or experience of this stuff?

Well if you have mutual interests. You can send her private messages. Just share a song you like, and ask her if it makes her feel the way you feel or something.

Make sure you seem INTERESTING, but not THAT INTERESTED.

Also, I don't understand why you didn't private message her in the first place? She asked you to be her "fake boyfriend" to scare away those guys: this gives you a 1000 reasons to make jokes about this. You did it in public, and thus got hijacked by a cockblocker. You should have done that privately, and roleplay in the message. I'll give you an example:

You: hey Sally, wow, I really felt like a bodyguard that night haha. So whatsup?
Sally: haha, yeah I bet. Well, today i... blablabla
You: Cool! You know what, next time we go to a game, I'll be wearing a bullet proof vest and a gun. It will complete the look for me
Sally: awww haha. You're such a funny guy.
You: thanx , but seriously, I enjoyed meeting you and look forward to talking to you again the next game. Are you with me on that my little damsel in distress
Sally: Heey, yeah. I enjoyed it too, and am looking forward to it. haha. X your damsell in distress. LOL

This is how you can actually facebook-message your way into her bed so to speak...

The point is, you closed her. But you have got to keep her engaged on-line. Not every day, just little funny things. Don't send a message if you have nothing to say, or nothing to ask. So no: "hey I'm bored, how are you". shit like that. You can do that when she's your girlfriend.

Now, the whole idea is this. You want to get her prepped for the next game. The more you "let shine through" that you're an interesting guy, that you share interest, and that it will be fun to meetup and have adventures together, the more she will be looking forward to YOU instead of "the game" or "the night".

If you have doubts about this, or think this is too difficult for you, you can also just wait until you meet her again an take it from there. But always work on your texting and facebook experience. It can brighten up a girls boring day if you're good at it. And it will definitely stimulate her subconscious into thinking your a cool guy. Even if you have a bad hair day, when she meets you again.

Good luck! I hope this helps.

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Oh, I forgot. If SHE initiates the FB request. That is a huge IOI! So don't dork out, send her some cool messages and give her a good night next time!

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"Always leave her better then you found her"