Ok, this spot happened to me alot (it happens to all of us) but I never know whats the best way to deal with it! I met a girl in a club, she added me on facebook a couple of days after so I talked to her on facebook and I told her to text me so I can have her number, she did. Today I texted her:
Me: hey! I got a question
Her: Yess ?
Me: your a pretty cute girl, but do you have atleast a beautifull personality ?
Her: im pretty unique thats for sure ! why
Me: haha! in that case, lets have a drink and talk on wednesday night, around 7-8h ok
Her: your nice (: But a that time its preparation to go to bed for me... I wake up at 4h15am during the week
Me: Ok
Her:

I ended the conversation like that. I think that the best move here was to end the conversation like I did and ask her out again in a couple of days.
The fact that she:
-added me on facebook
-she texted me when I asked her to text me
-seems to make alot of smiley on her textos
is positive I guess,
but the fact that when I asked her out she didnt say something like: *I cant because I wake up early the next day *BUT* we could do something earlier or during the weekend.* makes me wonder if its a sign that she aint interested at all.

Anybody would like to share to me their toughts about this kind of situation? Is the best thing to do is really what I said (just ask her out again in a week) or is there others possibility? To be honest I'm not the kind of guy who likes to wait.
Thanks!
/Shirnak

Relax, she likes you.

She is telling you she can't make that day. Why does everybody assume it's a flake? People, including females have stuff to do ya know...

SOOO...

Just ask her what day of the week she is free for a drink/date...

Simple.

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Don't you think she would have told me something like: *I cant make it this wednesday cause I have to wake up early but we can see each other this weekend if you want?* if she was interested for real?
Don't you think by asking her what day of the week she is free for a drink/date after she already told me somekind of a *no* sounds needy and weak by me?

Dude you had a great start but if this was your first time texting the girl or any girl, you dont ask her out in your 3rd txt, even if she added you on facebook and gave you her number. You need to create the vibe before you ask her out. thats why this happens to you all the time. you dont create enough connection therefore you get lame ass rejection. This doesnt mean the girl doesnt like you or anything, its just that you need to flirt more so you can create the vibe. Text flirting is actually a lot easier.

No it's not needy,

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how Im I supposed to create a vibe if we dont meet each other? I tought we werent supposed to game the girl with textos but we were just supposed to use textos to set a meeting.

Shirnak you can use texts for two purposes:

1) To arouse a girl

2) To set up a meeting

When you are doing the first it is assumed that you two already had a connection and a strong sexual vibe between you when you two met.

When you are doing the second you don't hesitate or fluff talk. You did it absolutely correctly. As PEEBLE said, the girl is interested she is just not free at the time. Why would asking her when she is free be needy? How else on Earth are you supposed to find out when she is free if she is not telling you? If you don't try then you don't win, simple. If you really don't want to ask her when she is free you can do it like this:

Hey, /some bullshit/ happened and reminded me of you. I'm free on X and Y, let's /do something/

If you choose this approach then make sure to give her more than one opportunities for the meet-up.

Peace,

In$tinct

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After reading everything I decided to text her back:
Me: how come u wake up so early? :O
Her: blablabla (not important)
Me: blablabla, are you free sometime this week? or miss is too busy
Her: ahaha I should be able to find a spot
Me: ok

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later I decided to text again saying this:
Me: you must be eating sometimes come to dinner with me tommorow, it wont affect your *wake up early* schedule.
Her: ohhhh, your so cute !!
Me: I dont want you to say im cute haha, I want you to say: yes ill come to dinner with you haha
Her: haha, I have to answer now?
Me: indeed when people are polite they answer
Her: ahaha (: but when someone doesnt want to desapoint she is uncomfortable to answer hihi
Her: it bothers me a bit I do not usually go out of my routine during the week
Me: ok then we forget this
Her: but seriously thanks alot for the invitation! its appreciate
Me: ok, have a good night
Her: you too!!


well... seems like I've tried everything, I should just move on to another girl now, right? girl just seems to be polite with me cause she doesnt want to tell me shes not interested, I'm I misunderstanding something or I'm I right? by the way thanks you all for the answers! I really appreciate it.

Suspicious. Very suspicious. Indeed she looks like a tease so I would move on, but also don't be surprised if she messages you.

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