hey..
i have a very strange problem - i attract real good. i can get to a girl in a bar or real life, day or night game, and to get into attraction very fast. when i number-close (which happens a lot) the girls answer me pretty fast and good conversation gets on, until at some point i feel that the girl starts to lose interest. and i cant tell why..
im using a lot of nags and cheeky talk, and trying to add some attraction signs whenever i feel the girl is ready for it. but almost all of my opens end at the text zone. most of the times, my goal by that is taking her out the day after the first meetup (im available only @ weekends...)
why is that? do you have some tips?

your goal is not so good, you should wait more.
what do you mean by attraction signs?
can you elaborate a bit what you are doing?

This is just a guess... Maybe you force the text conversation, trying to keep it alive for too long? This is what I would be aiming for in your place... First make sure to talk about meeting up again during the first meetup, before you leave each other. Then text her within the first hour after you have left her. "It was fun today! I'm looking forward to see you again. Goodnight!" or something. Stay silent after that until the day of your date.

i see ioi's all over, joining them and their friends, all laughing, sometimes gets invited to sit with girls groups.. but always fail after

you need to elaborate more, i don't know what you are doing wrong, its like you tell me a story by general points.

You should probably wait a bit more before meeting, but I think your biggest problem is using text too much. Especially if you're using nags and cheektalk, like you said. Save that for in-person interaction. Texts can easily be misinterpreted, especially since you have no idea what her mood will be like when she reads them! Keep your texts short, use them to set up dates. It's cool to joke a little, but don't overdo it.

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They loose interest because you are not being consistent with your game. Maybe you're good at attraction, (as you said it.. throw negs, dhvs or attraction signs as you call them).. but what about comfort? what about rapport?

What is happening to you is that you're probably not conveying enough value and probably not generating good rapport between you and your target. Being attracted is just not enough for her to want to meet you again. Really

Part of what makes a girl answer you or reply to your text with enthusiasm and desire to see you again depends on how comfortable they felt when they met you. Did you build good rapport? Did you have anything else besides your game working for you? Did she feel comfortable around you? Did you convey an interesting enough personality?.

If you just attracted them and probly made them laugh and teased them, sorry buddy, its not enough.

My advice is this:

If you build attraction fast: go to rapport and throw DHVs, be congruent with your personality and do not try to come off as Mr. comedian; if you really reach a nice hook point, kino should be the next thing.
Engage on an emotional level and make her feel comfortable.

Good PUA's can do this within the first 5 minutes of meeting her, but in average, most guys take around 10 to 30 minutes to establish a solid conection and get a consistent number close. Don't try to close too fast that you forget the importance of rapport and comfort.

Second piece of advice is: DO NOT CALL THE NEXT DAY. NEVER. Please! If you want to, text her 1 or 2 days after meeting just so she can have your number, be funny, brief and then stop, and call her to meet up 2 or 3 days later..

If you generate enough attraction, generate good rapport between you two and make her feel comfortable AND convey an interesting personality you are on your way.

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Like others have said, keep your text convos brief and to the point. If you go on and on in texts, then what does she have to look forward to? She may feel like everything that needed to be said is all there in text format.

Also, I notice you said you're only available for weekends, but that can be a lot to ask for. Some people tend to reserve their weekends for close friends and whatnot, so maybe a quick meet during the week would be better (if possible, of course). With that little date (if that's what you want to call it), you get to remind her how awesome you are (not literally), so that's like your foot in the door that can lead to a real weekend date.

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basically you are just good looking and know shit about pick up and as soon as they start talking to you they lose all interest. learn how to game.

I think you aren't escalating enough. With your first interaction, escalate as much as you can and make yourself memorable so she wants more of you

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