hey..

so theres this girl i like at uni (if you've read my previous posts you'll know but its a long story) anyway we kissed after a night out, i sent flowers, things got awkward we got closer again and then i pretty much got friendzoned and went really afc and we haven't spoke since (like a week ago)

anyway its easter break and everyone has gone home, i think she is seeing another guy and its doing my head in thinking about it. she put as her status that she never wants to come back to uni as she's having such an amazing time at home.. and its really got to me. but like this guy is not as good looking as me and as friends I've never connected with someone as much as we did..

she kissed me at one point so she must of liked me to some extent.. but what has this guy got that i haven't. can i fix this and turn it around or is it gone..

sorry again!

Man it happens. You got rejected, it hurt. That's life and its the hardest lesson you will ever learn but once you deal with that, you learn that people aren't static in your life they are flowing always coming and going.

This guy could be an absolute retard, he could be the best guy shes ever met, who cares though. Because it's about you. You can't compare yourself to others. Girls aren't always logically bright when it comes to picking their partners. And the best thing you'll ever learn by being a man is how you deal with the knocks, rejections and the shit in life.

you can always fix anything.
the question does it really worth it?
does it worth of gaming girl when you are already unbalanced, when you mind is uncleared, when it set on chasing a girl, do you think you get anything of it?
no, you don't, let her go, learn to lose, so you will be able to interact with girls properly.

Haha it's so frusturaing cause I really like her and thought there could be something there..


Thing is that she's in my social group and I don't know of we're still friends or what.. Do you think I should try and remain friends or just be civil, how should I act when she's around?

i understand... we always get into situations like this.
but it's really hard to act like you don't like, near a girl you like.
stay civilized, since friends wasn't in you first goal, game more girls and it will draw your attention away from the girl.
that's the life...

How civilised?

We were really good friends before..

Is there anyway to maybe get her interested in me? How should I act to achieve this..

Thanks again