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The reason I ask this: there is this gorgeous girl, I see at the supermarket sometimes. I go rarely and at different times, so either it's occasional or she is there every day all the time. And always with a man.
So every time she sees me, she gives me long eye contact that she breaks first as if she's being surprised by her own courage. Whenever she's given me eye contact, a man she's with comes close to her. And grins like a Cheshire cat.
And this repeats each time I am there and they are there. I know that this will continue as long as I am alive and meet them because this is how males are created.
She is probably not even interested in me but uses this for an ego boost for herself.
They say, attraction is no choice for women. Well, it's no choice for men either. Whenever I see her, my biology tells me that she's perfect. So I have to look at her and the game repeats. Even if I don't look at her, they notice as my body is inhibited then. And going over, talking to her risks me being beaten up by Cheshire cat - if not in store then on the outside.
As the mantra "you have to do martial arts ugga ugga grow balls ugga ugga man up *hammers on his chest like a monkey*" is prevalent on any pickup forum - and I even went this route with the outcome of me being severely hurt - I am looking for alternatives. It's like therapy, whenever I say it doesn't work people stop taking me seriously when in fact I have the practical experience that they lack.
you want to solve problems through violence? is that your way for establishing control/dominance?
you want enough confidence so you can approach a girl near her BF?
you could do this 2000 years ago, but now we are civilized.
you start a fight both of you get arrested, few times like this and you go to jail, worth it?
what you are doing is recalling a Hollywood movie where actor fight for a girl, and take her from a bad guy, in life there is no such bad guys,if she want to leave him she leaves, if he doesn't give her there is an issue with the police/law.
plus she isn't the only girl on the earth, if she is taken , so be it, if you want to game her, game her when she is alone, else you get troubles, with MA or without, if you bit the shit out of him, then you automatically
found guilty, if police find out that you know MA you get even more years, those are the rules, so does it worth it?
i know a guy teaching MA the the police special units , he is 3 times more careful when he start argue with people in the street, cause he automatically has an advantage which will be used against him at the court.
in such situations you required to use wisdom, in your advantage, its even more attractive then establishing control, outsmart people makes you even more attractive, the game is always handling situations in the right way.
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I also believe that as it is in tune with my experience. Your body's chemicals punish you if you don't have the outcome of regular sex. I don't understand why so many people diminish their success by assuming they had no outcome.
it's just the way we are, if we don't see results, we don't feel like we gained something, the outcome we want is determined by society, i assume we speak about relationship with girls, so is our nature, if we will be please of anything we are doing, we will get nowhere, we need to need something, in order to do something. if we don't get the outcome we expected, we have to feel bad so we will try to get it, who determines what outcome we want? society.
we aren't fucked up, our society direct us be so.
CHAT