Hey guys got a weird question I could use some advice on. Last fall I dated this girl it ended kind of abruptly without. Any real reason. She just stopped answering her phone which I thought was cold, but oh well I moved on at the moment I'm seeing 5 different girls life is good! Then today for the hell of it I decided to browse through pof even though I'm not signed up for it. Her page was the 1st one to pop up so I checked it out her page says about how she thinks the site is hopeless, but she did meet a really cool guy on here which I know she was talking about me. Then I browsed okc for the hell of it once again her profile was the 1st one to come up. I feel like something is telling me to msg her. Even though I think it was pretty shitty on her part how it ended. Not sure I can emotionally detatch myself enough because I did like her, but it would answer my questions I have an abundance of women now so it wouldn't sting as bad, but it would still sting a bit. I'm wondering if its worth the effort or worth swallowing my pride to msg her.
As always any advice is appreciated!

Hey man. Always good to have an abundance mentality. I can understand how you feel about the one chick. It is best to "randomly" bump into her if at all possible. Things sound pretty wild though and I don't know all the details, so PM me if you want any more advice.

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Did you bang her? When you were dating her the first time...if not it makes it that much more difficult and I would pass on reopening. IF you did in fact bang her and you know for sure she was talking about you in her online profile I would reopen with something easy, like wishing her happy birthday, easter etc and go from there.

Wouldn't hurt to drop her a line. "Funny thing. Logged in and guess who was first on my list of suggestions? How've you been?"

Still, sounds like you've got oneitise for this chick. I would thread carefully.

Why the fuck bother if you've got 5 other choices? She have the only gold plated pussy on the planet?

Apparently she's a good fuck. That comes from experience.

You need closure? Here is some closure; she likes lots of cock.

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Yeah probably the happy birthday/easter is the best way to go. Ask to catch up (which I assume is ok because you don't appear to be in an exclusive relationship) and say you have a few unanswered questions.

Plus what's the downside of messaging her? No one will find out if you really do have one-itis.

Thanks for the advice guys I appreciate it! I decided against msg'ing her simply because I can't swallow my pride for long enough to msg her. I have 5 other girls right now plus I just won my fight on the weekend and met 3 other girls that night which raises my total to 8 so why the fuck would I worry about this one? I'm just chalking it up to a weak moment when I saw her page. After we broke up I had a slight case of oneitis I always had an abundance, but I liked her. Oh well I have an abundance now and life is good.