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| Boron | PostPosted: Thu Apr 17, 2014 8:25 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Apr 17, 2014 7:58 pm Posts: 2 | | I've known a girl closely for nearly two years now, we started out by being roommates for roughly a year without any romance happeing due to the fact that she was in a serious relationship at the time.
Becuase of that we have been good friends but they have recently broken up, I do feel like shes sending me some signals but Im getting confused:
*She says that im good looking.
*Shes always happy around me, smiling, laughing etc.
* We do, from time to time, maintain eyecontact for several seconds.
*She usually leans towards me while we're hanging out.
*We do have some good kino.
*When we hug they are for roughly two to three seconds and our full bodies meet. (If you know what I mean?)
*She wants to spend quality time with me, either during weekends at her place or mine and recently we've talked about either going over seas or heading to a spa.
Then there are the mixed signals:
*She doesnt like my beard and states that a 10 day stubble is more attractive.
*She says that she will be more availble now on phone when shes single (though she hasnt initiated a call so Im guessing she want me to)
*She said she would call one day after work but didnt (Which I interpret as a game plan, she trying to make me sweat and make me think of her)
So my question is, could she be interested in me or is my other head playing with my mind?
Also, after skimming through the forum I have another question.
Generally its a bad thing if she doesnt mind wearing no makeup near me or being dressed lightly around me (not only underwear, but some trouseres and a sportsbra or a shirt and panties) Therefor my question follows as such; Since we have know eachother for some time, could it affect her need to always look good infront of me?
Sorry for the long post, hope you have time to read it anyway.
Thank you from Boron.
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| Eddie Fews | PostPosted: Thu Apr 17, 2014 10:20 pm | |
| Offline | | Read My Book |  | Joined: Thu Jun 27, 2013 8:08 pm Posts: 5028 Website: http://www.EddieFews.com Location: New York City | | Hey man,
This is a very simple thing.
She's fresh out of a relationship and is looking for male attention so she can begin to feel emotionally secure again. This is pretty much the breeding grounds for REBOUND relationships. Most of todays women have this experience. Now its on you what you do with this.. But I personally wouldn't get involved; women fresh out of relationships tend be still be carrying some emotional weight that will be of no use to you.
The thing is; she'll bait you into giving her extra attention so she can feel better, but if you hold out; her bait will become more and more aggressive. Thats when you make a move if you decide to - which I recommend you don't once again.
Also.. Don't change anything. Keep being you. If you decide to cut your beard thats one thing, but don't make a decision based of the position of another. And definitely don't do it with some hope that'll she'll sleep with you, because it will have the opposite effect.
If you relax, stop analyzing, and be cool you'll find yourself in position to decide whether you're going to sleep with her or not.
Let me know if you want any further assistance.
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| jeffyp | PostPosted: Fri Apr 18, 2014 5:46 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Apr 11, 2014 7:18 am Posts: 72 | | Yeah, it sounds like a rebound fuck is wanted. Think about whether you want to fuck her or not and act based on that. Also, think about whether you're interested in her after that because getting into a rebound relationship would be easy at this point and plenty of those go on to be long lasting and healthy relationships if nurtured correctly.
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