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I see what you mean by too playful..What do you mean by making my texting more challenging?
After the post I got sick of text(which was last nights convo) I called her this morning, She opened up to me about things in her life..I still try to keep things fun but about 9 Minutes in I said "I need to go I have people to see and places to show face" After that no convo. But I'm keeping things light and fun. I actually met her in a pool bar, And I got her number and left..
Also what I don't understand is how to you build enough attraction on text that she could say yes to a date because I'm pretty sure that is where I'm going wrong.
you can't build attraction though text from zero, unless you got the number before she had seen you first, for this case if you play wise she will increase here curiosity, it will work to you that way, but soon she will must to talk to you, text doesn't project feeling(not exactly), therefore she can't read you, so she can't determine whether you are dangerous or not, if she likes what you got to say, you will get a date.
like i said if you already got her number from her she already decided about you, gaming her a bit increase the attraction, but works only if she decided that you have green light with her, you can play hard to get, push pull, tell stories how desirable you are, there are girls that chase you, ignore her a bit, show you don't care, make fun of her, joke with her.
i personally don't communicate thought text or calls, phone is a tool to set a date, it doesn't make a progress, the opposite, as much as you game there, its feels like you don't stick to the goal, you just playing around, you waste energy, instead of getting her and close F.
my advice don't focus on build attraction on the phone, the outcome at this point is neglectable, it's not rocket science, open with few jokes, a bit negative a bit positive(as a reminder for the date), ask her for a date, get the answer.